I am in a huge predicament and am so confused. I will try to make this as brief as possible but it is a somewhat lengnthy story. I really need advice. I met a guy several months ago and we were aqauintenes. Had a ball together at parties and such. He was the sweetest, most gentlemanly, fun guy. He moved in with a friend of mine who btw had been involved with him some time before i met him. He and I started to hang out and I had never been treated so great. This has gone on for 3 months. I let him stay at my house overnight, we saw each other everyday. And he was a perfect guest. Always offering to help around the house and such. I let him use my car since his was wrecked and took him to and from work. I'm just that kind of woman. He took care of everything. We were great partners together. The catch..... We seldom had sex. It just wasn't important to him I guess. I am a very sexually charged person, but delt with the issue of him not being that way. This is the first person I have truly liked in 4 years. I am 31 and he is 23. Another catch, when asked where our relationship was going, he either refused to talk about it, or said that we were friends. I finally told him i needed to know if we were going to be just friends, so that I would know i could date other people, and not give so much of myself to him or if we were going to take it up a notch. He told me to give him some time while I was away on vacation. I gave him that. I came back and he said he was ready. Everything was amazing. Then we had a miscommunication which was my fault and i apologized. He just started treating me different and would not let me explain my side of anything. A complete turnaround from the guy I have been seeing. No we are not together and he being a complete ass. I am finding out from his roomate my friend that he did the exact same thing to her and is now drinking all the time and staying out until all hours. I don't know what happened.