Should I go?!?

[Bigg Boss]

Damn sh*t. Long story short, me and my gf didn't see each other much durin the school year, summer started, and we went out for the first time during the summer (very optimistic). Turns out not to be much of a success (I was trying to hard to be a DJ and I turned out not to be a DJ at all). Since then, she hasn't been enthusiastic on the phone at all. I mean damn, not AT ALL.

I txted her yesterday and was like

*I txt her a few times and get no answer*
Her: y u think i'm mad?
Me: Cuz you ain't talkin no more
Me: Maybe it was saturday. Was it saturday we went out? That wasn't one of our best days
Her: I left my phone at my mom's work
Her: I know but I wasn't the only one not talking

(BTW, bad thing about saturday was I was thinking too hard, and I didn't make hte day fun. I didn't talk much in the car at all)
Me: Well I still sense somethin different
Her: Yeah. I don't know i just dont feel the same
Me: Same about what?
Her: us and our relationship

(****)

Me: That's cuz it been a half a year, things just died down for a min. That don't mean we shouldn't try to liven em back up
Her: iight i understand
Me: I ain't tryna make u stay in it, that's all u ma. I mean I know ashanti wouldn't mind bein my gf, yadda mean? (inside joke, she despises ashanti, the famous singer)
Her: Whateva she don't want u and I'm not sayin i want to break up
Me: (here I stop the conversation and start a little playful fighting and she follows then we stop txting)

Well after that, I call her that night and she's talking like we used to. Well sorta. Then the basketball game comes on after about 5 minutes and she's all into the game. I feel pretty left out, but I try to act like I'm into the game to (I am but damn she's all into it and ****, not payin no mind to me. Aren't we trying to renew our bond at this moment?). After about 10 minutes I tell her my phone is breakin up and is about dead. She's like "Iight call me later". Wtf? I can use my house phone! But I'm good at covering up my true feelings so I won't sound AFCish so I'm like "aight". I don't call her though. F*ck that.

So tonite comes. It's 12am. I see her cruisin myspace so I just send her a really simple msg saying "hey". She calls me up 10 minutes later. Not so enthusiastic. But she does ask me if I'm going to her carwash (that she just suddenly told me and telling me she forgot to tell me earlier). I tell her I don't know (it's from 8am-12pm tommorow). Her phone is breaking up and all after about 5 minutes. I say use ur house phone. Then the call drops. She hasn't called back. She ain't gon call back.

At this point I'm really trippin. I mean, I still make her laugh a little bit but I'm really f*ckin up. I think she's tired of our phone talks because the conversations seem so routine. Starts with me askin her how her day was (we always start off with her day, I think she's tired of me asking her that all the damn time). I then ask whats she's doing. She's starting to reply with simple ass answers that give off the vibe "stop asking me this". But damn, I dunno how to really stir up conversation. I try. But I guess it seems I'm trying to hard so it doesn't really seem to work. I think it's because we talk on the phone too much.

Also, should I go to this carwash tommorow? I'm going away for a week starting Sunday. What I'm thinking is, if I DONT go, I WONT call her for that whole week. If she does call me, I'll keep it short, get her happy but the cut it off. Making her want to resume the call again some other time. But maybe I SHOULD go? I mean, I could go and really give her friends alot of attention. Maybe just go out there and become the center of attention (especially at the carwash, we have some music playin, i'll be a crazy mofo ). Get her to start thinkin "Wow I guess he hasn't turned boring at all". I've never been around her with a group of people so maybe this is something we need.

Should I do it?

[Gigabitch]

Yup. You should definitely do something. What you've got isn't working at all. Try new things, because she sounds bored.