Help?

[Pun1sher]

Ok so me and this girl started talking like 3 months ago, then we stopped, then we stopped. We started talking again like a week ago then we stopped again becuase we both thought we were too young, i'm 16 and she is 15, she turns 16 in november. So she told me i'm the only guy she ever wants to be with, and she isn't telling me we should stop talking so she can move on, it's just i'm diferent from all the guys she's been with and we could of just gone out but we wanted to make things slow. So tonight we were on the phone and her sister was screaming at her and we kinda were arguing and she was like omg you're irritating me you're goona call me back because you're irritating me, then she clicks the phone in my face. She has done this before but it was kind of a misunderstanding, my friend did it to her when she called me and i called her back and we talked and i was like what's wrong and she was like ask your friend, then clicked. After that she i'm pretty sure she said she won't ever do it again. So she does tonight and I just called her back right after to tell her why she did it and she didn't pick up. I left her like 2 voicemails and even imed her, and I know she saw the ims because she changed away messages like 2 times, even though her sister always x's out of her ims, i'm sure she saw them. Anyways i left her a 3rd voicemail telling her i'm done talking to her and we aren't going out and it's over, you dodged all my calls and i hope your happy you clicked in my face, just telling you we're done. Even though we didn't go out, I was waiting for her until she was ready like she wanted me to, like she gave me a choice if I wanted to wait or not. I was like you don't care if I don't want? She was like I ****ING CARE, why wouldn't I care? i just want you to be happy and i was like i'll wait and stuff. She just wants to wait until summer is over and she gets her license and stuff so it's easier for us, and she says nothing will happen i won't fall for another guy i promise. she wants to hangout with guys even if i told her not to, and she said she wouldn't if we are going out. we liked eachother but she wanted to hangout with guy friends and she wouldn't mind if i hungout with girls, well actually she would of. we talked on the phone like everyy night and we even stopped saying i love you and started saying love ya to calm things down and stuff. but tonight i just felt like i had to end it. so yeah then she calls back and i dont answer and she was out with her sister and some friends and she left a voicemail and it was like "heyy i just got your voicemail and its fine ok bye"

[mini696]

You dont want to wait, because you keep pestering her and trying to apologise.

She doesnt want to be with you and is using "lets give it time" as a gentle let down. She gets angry cos you keep annoying her.

[Pun1sher]

I never annoy her? She always tells me let's just take it slow and I say that lol.

When she left her voicemail I can tell she was sad, but she was out with her sister and friends.. She told me online when I heard that my jaw just dropped.. She was like I don't think i'll ever forget what you said "I don't like you, I don't want to talk to you or wait for you, it's over" but I just had to say it.. It's fine though..

[skye.m]

Hmm, sorry if this is harsh or whatever, but you guys don't sound like you're 'meant to be'... another case of teens thinking their 'in love,' in my opinion.

[JAspice]

Why are you trying to fall in love at age 16 anyway. Live life first.

[vashti]

Girls this age are not to be understood, so don't even bother. When one treats you with such blatant disrespect (and immaturity) that she continually hangs the phone up on you, it is correct for you to cut them out of your life. It is called "setting boundaries" for what behaviors you are willing to tolerate. Life is short, and there is no excuse for putting up with such rude behavior, and clearly this girl is not the one for you.