give me your oppinion

[sneakerlover]

well...there is this girl...
at the 1st day we met..it was really nothing...it's just friends stuff...
but when i get to know her more...i feel like..i just need to know her!
i mean...where she lives..what she likes...everything's just about her...
i cant get her off my mind...but...there is just on case...
i found out that she fell for some one else...a friend who is a friend of mine!
well...that didnt hurt me so much....what's hurting me is...she's talking about him everyday...!!! well..of course i dont mind..and reply her...and some times encourage her...but...she's just crazy about him!! i really dont know what to do...
and then...today...she told me that she may be transfering to another college!
it cracked my heart wide open! i really cant believe i felt this...because the last time i felt this way is when..the girl i fell for for 8 years is leaving for the US. but this girl...im just getting to know her. it has just been a month....i cant believe i fell for her!
so...what should i do...what you want me to do if you're that girl?

she know's that i fell for her..but she's like having nothing towards me...
should i forget about her? should i continue to hope for something?
i just dont know what to do for now...im really confused!
just give me your oppinion...

thanks...

[vashti]

Whether or not she is transferring to another college, I would probably try to forget about her. It sounds like she views you solely as a friend - not a boyfriend. If that is true, it is awfully hard to move beyond that...

[mini696]

You need to accept she doesnt see you as relationship material (for her). So accept that, ask her to introduce her friends to you, and move on.

[sneakerlover]

may be i should...but seeing her everyday at college...its suffering ok!!
really cant take it...some times i'd rather not to know at all!!!
then things may not be this bad....

thx for reading my tread anyway..i'll try my best...

[LoVeSyCk]

I know how you feel. Try to distance yourself

[mini696]

I also know how you feel... There is nothing you can do to stop these emotions except for refraining from those situations where you will see or think of her.

[sneakerlover]

As you all know, it has been a hard time for me. Now it's getting better. I mean our relationship as friends. She's beginning to get closer to me and share everything to me now. We dont quite have a secret between us. Of course, I'm happy about it because now I really have a chance to get to know her more than ever!! I'm real happy...it's like we're really close now! I just cant believe it!
Well, if she had a crush on some one else, why is she getting close to me?
I mean she should be trying her best know that guy and not me.
oooo...I'm confused man...but overall..I;m still happy...

[RandomGBFlamer]

ahh the good ol' friend but not boyfriend act some girls pull
it freaking kills you when you find out that they dont like you.