Well...Advice please

[xwfuro]

Well im not sure if anyone on here remembers me from about 7months back i broke up with a 3 year long relationship.. the relationship was sketchy from the start and i finally am over it.. Just last night my ex calls me out of nowhere wanting to chill and wishing me a happy b-day etc. this is the first time we have talked since 7months.. what should i think about this? she has a boyfriend etc. i told her i would call her today should i or not?

[Junket]

Just be careful as to why you're calling her back.

Don't call her back because you've suddenly grasped some sort of hope to get back with her.

Don't call her back because simply because you don't want to be rude.

If your comfortable with talkin' to her on a strictly friend basis, I say go for it. But I would say keep it short and sweet.

And avoid the subject of her boyfriend.

[xwfuro]

well im kinda doing it not to be rude because a few of my friends said, "you told her you would call her, if you dont thats rude." but i dont want anything out of this really.

The biggest problem is me and her were never friends for long periods of times we were always talking. bascially always dating just sometimes no label. I dont think im going to just because i dont see anything good coming from this.,

[Gigabitch]

Just return her call when you know she won't be able to get to the phone, so you can leave a completely bland message. Passive aggressive? Maybe. Who cares? Protect yourself.

[Ellynn]

Yeah, going from not talking to you at all, to suddenly wanting to hang out. Seems fishy.

Shes in a relationship now, so I would just call her back and tell her you have been kinda busy and that you really don't have the time right now. Be nice, but get your point across.