What should I do?

[southernguy7]

Me and this girl have been talking for a year now. We started dating and dated for a year. Then we broke up bc we was becomming kind of distant. I found out she was seeing another guy before we broke up. Then found out she had sex with him numberous times. She tells me she loves me and its kind of hard not to believe her. I also love her a lot and i dont know what to do. I cant give her up but i dont know what to do. it is hard for me to trust her again. Everything time i think or talk to her i think about that guy she had sex with and it breaks my heart. she said she had sex with him to get over me but im thinking if she did that. then everytime shes mad will she do that to me again? does anyone have any advice? thank you so much in advance.

[vashti]

It was a bit unclear whether she slept with the guy while you were together or not, so I am assuming she did not.

If she had sex with the other guy while you were broken up, it really isn't any of your business. I don't know why she even told you - all that kind of knowledge can do is hurt someone. If you can't get over knowing this, you ought to end this relationship and move on to someone else.