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Thread: Best way to ask someone out

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    Best way to ask someone out

    Hi,

    I would like to know what people think is the best way to ask a girl out?

    There seems to be so many possibilities these days: face to face, email, telephone, text message, etc.

    I am presuming face to face is the best way?

    The girl that I want to ask out I don't often see on a one to one basis (ie there are normally other people with us) so what would be the best way in this situation?

    Thanks in advance for any help.

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    I think calling her up on the phone would be the second best to asking her face-to-face. E-mailing and texting can be cute, but they're too far removed from the intimacy you're trying to promote, IMO.

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    If you're serious about asking her out, face-to-face is the only way to go. Not the only way, but definetly the most effective.

    Most girls are so struck by the action of you working up the bravery to ask them out that they will have a very hard time saying no.

    Of course, many serious relationships start over the phone or IM. One of my best friends has been dating a girl for eleven months now whom he asked out over the phone.

    But I'm a dying breed of "hopeless romantic", and I think it should always be done face-to-face.

    Just my opinion/advice.

    -Z
    "Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love."
    -Charlie Brown

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    Quote Originally Posted by Denthrare
    If you're serious about asking her out, face-to-face is the only way to go. Not the only way, but definetly the most effective.

    Most girls are so struck by the action of you working up the bravery to ask them out that they will have a very hard time saying no.

    Of course, many serious relationships start over the phone or IM. One of my best friends has been dating a girl for eleven months now whom he asked out over the phone.

    But I'm a dying breed of "hopeless romantic", and I think it should always be done face-to-face.

    Just my opinion/advice.

    -Z
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    message is too short write more useless crap

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    You can fill in some "useless crap" yourself if you so desire.

    I gave advice and posted my reply, as is my right on this forum. If you don't like it, then you do not have to strain your brain to comprehend what I have to say. I'm not going to make you.

    -Z
    "Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love."
    -Charlie Brown

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    you must be the dumbest ... in case you havent noticed you CANNOT TYPE A SHORT MESSAGE ... SO YOU HAVE TO FILL IT WITH WORDS .

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