Should I be upset about this or not?

[BlackiesHD]

I would end it definitively. I don't really like loose ends, and I am a serial monogamist.

I think if you're worried you'll send her over the edge and into a cocaine binge, you might not want to do that, though. I guess it's not really an issue until you find someone else you want to commit to, right?

Right. I guess. Damned if I know, the whole situation has become so bizzare.

Let's see what happens (if anything) over the weekend. 'When in doubt don't do anything' may be the mantra of the day.

Meanwhile, I'll go out with friends tonight and have a good time, at least get some fresh air...

[Gigabitch]

So, the answer to the question posed at the beginning of this thread: "Should I be upset about this?"

YES.

[BlackiesHD]

So, the answer to the question posed at the beginning of this thread: "Should I be upset about this?"

YES.

Guess that's the bottom line. Life's too short.

[clynn]

Yah, I'm kinda with Giga on this one.

I've done the fade away thing before but if you really care about her a lot it is probably best to end it clearly so that you yourself can feel free to do what you will.

Geeze - maybe she will emerge from her work madness and single mother madness and phone.

[misombra]

what are you looking for in a woman?

what is your worth?

[BlackiesHD]

what is your worth?

Not exactly sure what you mean.

[misombra]

i'm just trying to figure out why you pick such wacky women. do you not believe you deserve better, or what?

[BlackiesHD]

i'm just trying to figure out why you pick such wacky women. do you not believe you deserve better, or what?

I don't pick them, they pick me, guess I'm a nut magnet.

Funny thing happened just last night. I'm at a club hanging out with friends when a really cute girl asked me to dance. Later over drinks on the patio I asked her what she did. Said she was a RN specializing in mental health and in fact works for a State mental hospital. Realizing that perhaps I'd finally found my perfect (AKA sane) woman, I resisted the urge to propose LOL.

We're having a picnic on the beach tonight. Just wait, with my luck she'll be the worst of all, probably an axe murderer and my body will wash up on the shore in a few weeks.

[Gigabitch]

Don't you think it might be awkward, as she is likely to know so many of your ex's through her work?

[BlackiesHD]

Don't you think it might be awkward, as she is likely to know so many of your ex's through her work?

ROTFLMAO because it's true!

Sunday update: Nice evening. No axes or chain saws, I'm still in one piece. VERY nice, sweet, affectionate lady. Too bad she lives four hours away. I've sworn off L/D relationships but I'll keep in touch.

Still radio silence from New Orleans Gal. Seems there's a 'Mexican stand off' going on here. The one that blinks first...

[clynn]

Geeze! 4 hours huh?

[Gigabitch]

That's his MO. More of a curse, actually. He's physically unable to speak to a woman who lives less than an hour away.

[misombra]

That's his MO. More of a curse, actually. He's physically unable to speak to a woman who lives less than an hour away.

nor to a woman who is not hooked on drugs.

[clynn]

aaaahhhhh. crumbs

[blue]

do you think sometimes we attract pepole with the saem qualities that we may have? is their any truth in that?