Almost went back

[trancehead]

For those of you folks that remember my previous thread, I broke up with my ex last week. For half a day today I've been getting this weird feeling that I should reach out one more time 'cause maybe her ego won't let her swollow her pride and reach out to me. Then I came to my damn senses and realized that if she still doesn't understand what good guy she lost, then it's her loss and not mine.

No I am not going to give her no stupid flowers, I'm not going to contact her, I'm not going to send no retarded poems, if she still doesn't realize who she lost, then I couldn't care any less. I'm the one that got emotionally abused and taken advantage of mentally and physically. Forget her, I'm moving on.

[TAVS]

It's really your best option and your best chance of being happy. Kudos

[thinker]

Hey man, I don't know the story behind this, but from what I see now, I say good for you. Seriously. That is one of the hardest things in the world to do...

I have been in and out of a similar situation; my ex and I broke up (this is long distance btw, so it does avoid those awkward meetings and such) and for about a week I waited and waited for that apology phone call or the email spilling her guts out saying how stressed she was and she didnt mean what she sais... never came. Now it took me a damned good long time to really figure out that I was ok alone; seems like you've got things nailed in a week! But yes, kudos to you for having true confidence in yourself; there can only be someone better around the corner.

[King Zarathu]

Completely forget about her.