harassing "friend"

[lilwing89]

a month or two back, a 'friend' was driving around with one of his pals and thought it would be a good idea to call my girlfriend and sexually harass her on the phone. i found out, ofcourse, because she told me. she said they left her dirty voicemails and stuff too... i wanted to beat the living shit out if these guys when she told me. and she said maybe they were just kidding around, if they do it again i will tell my parents and let them handle it.. surely, a few days later, they did it again. she told her parents, and they took care of it alright.

her parents went and talked with each of the boys' parents(1-2 months ago). they were both 'upset'. it was enough to get the jackasses to stop leaving bad messages and shit tho.

to describe the 'friend', he is really fat, unnattractive, smelly, immature, and he smokes drinks chews and does drugs. basically, he has the personality that you'd suspect of a person who would do this.

and after that, i didnt want to be friends with that guy anymore. and he has a lot of nerves, because he doesnt get it. sure, he may need friends, and i was doing him a favor by being his friend, but he doesnt deserve to have me as a friend because of what he did.

well anyways, he has called ever since, about 20 times a day, i dont pick up. leaves text messages like crazy, and my voicemail is so full that it can't accept any more voicemails because there is so many in there from him!
he calls my girlfriend and she doesnt pick up or anything. leaves text and voicemails(but she actually reads them) that say he needs to talk to me.

he glares at my girlfriend when she goes into the grocery store to shop(where he works. also the only grocery store in town) and one time she was in the backroom getting supplies she ordered for her job and he walked up to her, dropped everything he was carrying and glared at her like he was going to attack her.

i told my counselor about it and he said that he is harassing us and we already told him to stop, so we can press harassment charges.

i warned the guy again. last week. and my girlfriend was over last night and he called my phone 4 times, 1 restricted, left a text message, called my brother and told him he needs to talk to me, i told him that i didnt want to talk, hung up, he called my gfs phone 4 times, left a voicemail, and a text. we didnt read the text, but she put the voicemail on speaker phone and the funny thing is he said he never said anything bad to her and he never left any messages or anything, and LMAO i never told him why i didnt want to be his friend anymore, and neither did my girlfriend! he admitted it right there, he knows thats why im mad but he wont admit what he did.

im seriously thinking that we need to press harassment charges now. he wont quit calling! when school starts i will never see the end of it! he will bug me nonstop!

you know, i think that if i did anything, like beat him up, it wouldnt do any good. hed prolly try to rape my gf or something... im afraid he might try already!...

comments? advice?

has anyone ever been in this situation before?

[Gigabitch]

Something like it, yes.

It's important to tell the police about this. They need to have a record of these occurences, so that if things get more extreme with this guy, (like maybe your girlfriend is attacked) they'll have a good legal justification for pressing stalking charges on him.

I'm glad she told her parents. And no, kicking his ass wouldn't help. It would only get your foot all dirty.

[King Zarathu]

Meh... I would have just beat the shit out of him but that's just me.


Go to the cops, make reports, keep records, keep proof. When he finally does something drastic, they'll zap his ass with ALL kinds of shit, and he'll be ****ed.