A little confused.

[k_hall1784]

I need some help with a problem that I'm having in my relationship. If anyone might be able to help me with an insecure boyfriend, please let me know.

[vashti]

If your boyfriend works on improving himself as a person, he will experience a boost in self-esteem, which will make him feel more "deserving" of a good catch.

Does he engage in any activity that allows him to view himself as a good, worthy person? Is he educated?

Also, I think insecurity is a symptom of youth, and to a large extent one outgrows a certain amount of this, assuming a normal process of maturing...