Hi. I met a guy a couple months ago at a BBQ party. There was lots of eye contact and good chat. It felt very comfortable and he asked me out.
Couple dates later after live jazz and a club we share some passionate snogging. After another date a couple weeks later I attempted to kiss him. But he said he wanted to be friends, although finds me attractive. I decided - lust permitting – to try being friends with this guy for a while. We’ve met and talked a couple times since then in an increasingly enjoyable, flirty, comfortable and fun way.
I’m 34 black, him 36 & Italian been in UK 2+ yrs. We’ve talked - him more than me - about wanting family, kids etc before 40. We own our homes, have good jobs and share a sense of faith. We’ve both lived with other people and realise it takes something special to do that again. I would like to know how to manoeuvre these delicate steps. No sex yet - but all this meeting up is explosive foreplay!!
I like him and think we’d be good together. So why is he politely distant? Is he just not into me?
Thanks y'all.
M