I've been dating this girl for roughly 3 months. I haven't seen or talked to her for the past week and a half because she is doing something called Summer Intensive. She is a dancer and for a week and a half every year. They dance for like 9 hours a day. Well she just got back and I messaged her on MySpace and asked when she wanted to do something again.
A month ago she would of messaged me back before I could blink, but its been 3 days and she hasn't messaged me back. I can see that she read the message 2 days ago.
I would call her, but 1) her mom didn't really approve of us going out in the first place (so everytime I DO call her, her mom makes me really nervous) and 2) I don't know what I would say. I can't really ask if she got my message (which I know she did) and is just ignoring it.
I don't know if I'm just overreacting or what. Help me.
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02-08-06, 11:20 AM #1
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Am I over-reacting?
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02-08-06, 12:25 PM #2
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Did she tell you she's be out of communication uring Summer Intensive? If so, then yes, you're definitely over-reacting.
You're dating her, not her mom, so don't worry about that. Phoning her isn't the only way to communicate.
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02-08-06, 12:27 PM #3
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Summer intensive ended 4 days ago.
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Originally Posted by Frasbee
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02-08-06, 01:01 PM #4
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Hmm.. it is possible that her mom decided to forbid her from dating you. Or maybe she is just away on vacation with her family. I guess you will have to wait unti you are in contact with her to find out what is going on.
Bummer.Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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02-08-06, 04:37 PM #5
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How can you tell if someone has read your message on myspace without them responding back? Originally Posted by DarkDwarf
Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....
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02-08-06, 09:46 PM #6
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Hah! Pwnt.
Yeah, just wait until she finally does IM you or whatever.... Then slap her.
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03-08-06, 08:57 AM #7
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I haven't yet perfected the slapping over IM thingy yet.
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Originally Posted by Frasbee
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03-08-06, 10:17 AM #8
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Well...
there goes that.
She broke up with me over AIM. GOD DAMMIT I AM SO FRUSTRATED RIGHT NOW.
SHE COULD HAVE ****ING CALLED. HOW MORE IMPERSONAL CAN IT GET?BACAMO
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03-08-06, 10:29 AM #9
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Yeah, that's pretty low. Good thing for you I am an expert IM slapper. Send her an IM like this:
**SLAP**
Better luck next time.Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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03-08-06, 10:33 AM #10
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That made me smile. I really needed that.
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Originally Posted by Frasbee
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03-08-06, 12:41 PM #11
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I would normally ask for advice, but I guess i know what I need to do. Stop all contact and move on.
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03-08-06, 12:43 PM #12
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Yes, I think that is for the best.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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Good for you, man. It takes a lot of guts and well, balls
to say that and mean it. Sometimes the reason things don't work out is becuase something unimaginibly better is around the corner, and if you are stuck with your head in the dirt, you won't see it coming. So, be thankful for the good times and take life as it comes!
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Harsh! Are you going to have to see this girl at school?
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Maybe, Maybe not. If shes not in my class I will see her maybe once a week. Unless we are in study hall together and then its 3 times a week. If shes in my class I'll see her alot.
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