Should I for a girl?

[TheSab]

I don't care now.. her friend show me a conversation she had with her on msn and the girl i like said "i'd never go out with him, i feel abit sorry for him actually"

[Kiechi]

I don't care now.. her friend show me a conversation she had with her on msn and the girl i like said "i'd never go out with him, i feel abit sorry for him actually"

Wow, we didn't SEE that one comming now did we?

[King Zarathu]

Wow, we didn't SEE that one comming now did we?

What?! No... We're just people online in case somebody needs encouragement and support for something completely inane. What the hell do we know? Right?

[TheSab]

It's amusing how my rep goes down but I don't do anything, my guess is, if you're not sarcastic your rep goes down.... but to be honest, i don't care about this stupid online rep.... it's just lame how you seem to get a kick out of lowering mine, i came here for help... i've only just started to date and i get people basicually saying i'm dumb.

[King Zarathu]

It's amusing how my rep goes down

it's just lame how you seem to get a kick out of lowering mine

i don't care about this stupid online rep

And, in conclusion....

i get people basicually saying i'm dumb.

In response:

shuld i impres a gurl by eeting my veggies liek mommi told me 2?

[vashti]

It's amusing how my rep goes down but I don't do anything, my guess is, if you're not sarcastic your rep goes down.... but to be honest, i don't care about this stupid online rep.... it's just lame how you seem to get a kick out of lowering mine, i came here for help... i've only just started to date and i get people basicually saying i'm dumb.

Sab, why don't you venture out into other threads? Continuing to post in this one is like asking to be kicked. It'll blow over faster if you just drop this thread.

I know they've picked on you quite a bit on this thread, but most of the regulars are actually quite nice when you get to know them. You will get used to their sarcasm.

[TheSab]

i've posted in several threads, but i'm not gonna anymore you people didn't help me one bit, i've only been dating for a few months and you people don't understand how hard it is for me, so just **** off thinking you know everything cause you really ****ing dont you assholes.

[vashti]

You can send me a PM if you want me to respond.

[Junket]

i came here for help... i've only just started to date and i get people basicually saying i'm dumb.

You could've fooled me.

You came in here, asked us for advice, then completely ignored it.

As you can see, we were all right on the money.

But you were too stubborn to accept it.

Dude, some of us have been doin' this thing for a loooong time, we know what we're talkin' about.

If you look back to everybody's ealier posts, you'll see that there was more sincerity in the posts. But it seemed as if you were trying to prove us wrong, that you only wanted us to respond with what you wanted to hear.


Example 1.) If we told you what you wanted to hear...

The Sab: Should I?

Loveforum: Yes.

The Sab: Aw, she rejected me, you told me it would work, but it didn't...what went wrong??

Loveforum: No idea, looks like it's about time you wallow in your sorrow and slit your wrists.


Example 2.) If you listened to us...

The Sab: Should I?

Loveforum: No.

The Sab: I think you're right, no girl is worth changing my lifestyle simply to impress. I acknowledge your almighty wisdom, realize the error of my ways and am now a better person for it.


Example 3.) How it went...

The Sab: Should I?

Loveforum: No.

The Sab: Should I?

Loveforum: ...No.

The Sab: Should I?

Loveforum: No, you ****ing dumbass.

The Sab: Well I'm gonna anyway.

Loveforum: Well then you're dumb.

The Sab: Aw, she rejected me, what went wrong??

Loveforum: Told you so.

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Are you seein' it now?

Now granted we here at LF aren't always on agreement on how certain situations should be dealt, which is good, because there isn't a right or wrong way with dealing with these things.

But there are better and worse ways.

So when you see us pretty unanimous on certain advice, for your own sake, take it into serious consideration. After all, how can you expect us to take you seriously if you refuse to take any of the advice we give, the advice you're asking for seriously?

We help because to some degree, albeit minor, we care. I have yet to see any of the Regs intentionally lead somebody astray.

Now stop acting like some poor victim, pull yourself together and go find a girl worth your time.



Welcome to Loveforum.

[vashti]

Nice post, Frasbee. It should be stickied.

[Junket]

Nice post, Frasbee. It should be stickied.

Let's just see if he comes back around.

I don't think he realizes how much he was disrespecting and frustrating the people that were giving him legitimate advice.

Looks to me as if he saw us as blatantly attacking him.

Give us some credit, like we don't have better things to do?