I've seen your photo -- your not really fat. I'm talking about some morbidly obese girls -- they had better look elsewhere in life for happiness than a love relationship. (And there are some guys that will never have love relationships.)
I've always known (or thought) that most women don't put as much emphasis on looks as men do and that they feel that men shouldn't be so looks-concerned but something I've learned since coming to this forum is that women also want to believe that their partner finds them physically attractive! That's asking a lot of a guy if you're not!