Please reply with yes or no thanks.
If the girl you LOVED more than anything in life... but u werent dating but were more than friends with , told u they don't want to get involved with you b/c they just got out of a serios relationship and don't want something serious agian, met some guy a night when u were all out.. and practically fell in love with him and u guys stopped talkin b/c of it.. and she was trying to like get into a serios relatioship with him but he dumped her after he had sex with her, and then she came back to u and wanted to be "friends" again.. would you give it another chance... mind you your madly in love with her and she even told u she she wants to meet other ppl and u weren't dating her.
ps: the thing that bothers me the most is she told me she didn't want to get involved with me b/c it would be serious, yet she met this guy and was practically trying to like keep him forever..
so.. would you give her a second chance? Yes or No?
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21-09-06, 11:52 PM #1
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Yes or No?
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22-09-06, 12:02 AM #2
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I don't think you should try to be "friends" with a girl you are interested in romantically. She hasn't done anything wrong; she just doesn't like you that way, and so of course she will be seeking romantic relations with other men, and apparently, that is too hard for you to accept.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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22-09-06, 12:16 AM #3
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I totally understand, im' not like in denial, but, she told me "i can't get invovled with you b/c it will be serious and i don't want a relationsihp" yet she goes and tries to get into one with that guy. And she told me she liked me first, and broke up with her bf 2 weeks after we started talking. I just want to know if the romance is possible should i give it a second chance considering the circumstances i have described.
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22-09-06, 12:17 AM #4
atada a mis pies.
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22-09-06, 12:29 AM #5
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I don't think a romance with this girl is in your future. Sorry.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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22-09-06, 12:31 AM #6
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Depends on how much more of the above you're willing to stomach. I think that's all you're gonna get from her.
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So very very very very very very ridiculously hard to move on.. hardest thing i have ever tried to do and prolly going to have to do.. the thought of not talkin to her scares me... like i need her.. but she causes me so much sorrow yet i keep coming back ... is this a disease Originally Posted by Gigabitch
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22-09-06, 12:48 AM #8
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Well, science DOES equate love with mental illness (as far as brain wave activity goes).
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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22-09-06, 01:01 AM #9
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DO you think if you tried to find somebody else, you'd end up in the same position?
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22-09-06, 02:42 AM #10
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I think that i'll never ever ever ever.. find someone who i will like as much as her.. even though i know thas a crazy thought thats most likely untrue.. i just feel like shes perfect for me.. which is also crazy b/c clearly all she did was hurt me.. like i have all these crazy feelings that are clearly un-rational but i can't seem to listen to my rationality b/c my feelings are soo strong... and yes i'm terrifed to ever like someone else again b/c what if they do the same thing to me as she did... i'm actually quit worried.. Originally Posted by Gigabitch
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22-09-06, 03:44 AM #11
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not worth it dude. it would feel like ending up with used goods, i would never be convinced that she is genuine or for real. be glad that you didn't end up wasting your heart on her. save it for someone worth it. chin up.
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22-09-06, 05:23 AM #12
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Maybe you should do a little thinking about why you chose an unavailable woman. It might help you steer yourself in a better direction.
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22-09-06, 11:12 AM #13
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Losing a girl is a lot like losing a pet. At first, you're like "I don't want another one, that was the best one ever!" Then you walk past the pet store, see another one in the window, and the cycle continues.
Make a list of the things you dislike about this girl and refer to it whenever you miss her.
DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!! Girls like the one you described are evil!
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22-09-06, 12:49 PM #14
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I'd answer with a simple No! But Loveforum won't let me.
So, Let me be the only person to answer you the way you like it..
Nice, simple, and to the point.
NO!!!
If you can't stop the Wind, then you can't stop the Storm.
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22-09-06, 12:59 PM #15
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Thanks for the advice all.. i'm going to listen to you!! Originally Posted by GrkScorp
I'd answer with a simple No! But Loveforum won't let me.
So, Let me be the only person to answer you the way you like it..
Nice, simple, and to the point.
NO!!!
GOD BLESS!
