My girlfriend, Tonya, and I have been dating for a while now and were madly in love with each other. I met her for the first time breifly. My friend Brad was the one who introduced us. He gave her my cell phone # and screen name, even without me knowing. He brought her over a couple of times and we hit it off real well. Her and Brad were really close. Not romanticly close, but best friends close.
Brad started to get a little jealus but never really said anything. So after I told him her and I fell in love the problems started. The very next day he kisses her and tries just about everything he can to get together with her. Why he started to do all of that AFTER he hooked us up is beyond me. I know for a fact he wont go away until he can have Tonya.
When I asked Bad about what hes been trying to do he denied it of course. So him and I had a falling out. She knows that at this point I have no respect for him what so ever. Recently Tonya invites Brad over her place for a few beers. She misses their friendship because before me, they had a very strong one. So when I showed up I was a little upset but kept it to myself. She told me he would leave in just a minute. Well a minute turned into 30 and I couldent take it. I left at midnight and told her to call me once he was gone.
Just before 1am she calls me and tells me to come back. I go back and we talk. I basicly told her that I dont think its a good idea for them to hang around each other because I know he wont stop at anything to get her. He threw a 7 year friendship with me to try for 1 night of sex. Even though nothing happened, its the fact that he tried and wouldnt mind if it did. I know nothing sexual would ever happen between them, because I can totally trust her. But I also have her babies father to put up with and thats just another long story.
Basicly I dont have the strength to put up with the babies father and Brad at the same time. They are one in the same and they have a major obsession with Tonya. Am I wrong for asking her to stop talking to Brad? Shes been controlled all her life by her babies father, and I told her I would never tell her what to do. I feel bad telling her not to hang around Brad but I feel as if I have no other choice.
Thanks for taking the time to read this and any input would REALLY help!!