Ok, before you think too much about the question at hand, let me tell you a story.
Ok lets say you have a child withsomeone, you love that child with all your heart. Then a few years later you have another child. You love that child with all your heart too, you love both of them with all of your heart, they dont have to share your love, it is not like you like each of them with half your hear - what im getting at is that your ability to love is infinite.
Now why cant your ability to love multiple people apply to others? Why is it assumed that man can only (romantically) love one person?
and do you believe it is possibile to love more than one person? I am trying to figure this out myself, that is why i am bringing this up. im so confused.