Therefore, since those two traits can blur together, it makes it somewhat difficult to be confident but not cocky. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's harder than you seem to think it is.
Therefore, since those two traits can blur together, it makes it somewhat difficult to be confident but not cocky. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it's harder than you seem to think it is.
Come on derm! Tell me what you own, what you drive, and what kind of work you do!!
But seriously, why would you be bothered about saying what you do for a living? Most women care more about the fact that you are employed than they do about what exactly it is you are doing.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Not anywhere in this day and age but you get the girls (over here especially) who get more interested when they find out what you own, drive, work at etc
I agree there is a very fine line here between what's confident and what's cocky and then what's downright arrogant
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Because then you are automatically an attraction to them. I prefer to tell them lies and say I'm just out of college or between jobs. If they stick around I like them if not I file them under G for goldigger
Well over here there is little or no unemployment at least amoung young people. If you were unemployed you couldn't afford to socialise in the first place so not an issue
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Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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Good so far!
Nah I'm generally not THAT paranoid around girls. Just if I suspect they are goldiggers and we have nothing much in common to begin with. I then start driving them away by making myself less attractive and pretending I'm a bit of a looser.
Interesting to see their reactions.
Tried pretending to be a priest once, but it backfired on me...
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What's wrong with golddigging women? As long as you enjoy being around the one who's attracted to your money -- and you don't plan on running out of money!
Is it really that important that they like you "for you"?
Just askin'
To me, this is analogous to women wanting to be liked for their "inner beauty" and not because they're actually gorgeous.
Most people probably want more than that but that doesn't mean they deserve it or will get it. A lot of us will have to settle for less.