Okay well, I'm a 19 year old girl and there is this guy that I like and I wrote him a letter telling him that I like him and maybe we could go out for coffee or out to lunch to talk and get to know each other a little better. He called me and said he wanted to be 'friends for now.' I was okay but a little devastated. But before I got the nerve to ask him out there were times when he come over to our group and while he would readily flirt and give my friends hugs he would either ignore me or lightly tap me on the shoulders or on the small of my back. Then after we came back for our Christmas break he got all of his gal pals a mini pouch with their names on it, but got me a beaded necklace. And one of my friends told me supposedly that he asked her had i worn it yet. So does this mean he likes me or giving me mixed signals because i'm thinking about returning it because i'm really frustrated.
*I do feel really bad about even thinking this. But for me since I'm still hurting from the rejection I don't feel right keeping it. Secondly, being that he is a really flirtatious guy by nature and he keeps ignoring me I figure if I give it back he won't be hurt and will find someone else to give the necklace to. So does he like me and am I wrong to want to give it back?
*Secondly, I've known this guy since like 5th grade, but through the years we've only seen each other periodically. Meaning one year I'll seen all the time, then another year I won't see him at all. So, we aren't even really close...more like casual acquaintances. (I asked him to Homecoming as friends b/c I didn't want him to know how much I liked him at the time and at least once during the dance we held hands. Although I'm not sure if that means he was being nice or if that was a little bit of attraction.)
Look I know a lot of you will probably say just talk to him, but i have this friend who is very fliratious and everytime I try to get my crush alone to talk, there she goes throwing herself on him again so I guess giving back the necklace would be to get his attention on me.