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    I am confused, maybe you can help?

    Hello this is the first time I have ever posted on something like this before.

    Just hoping you could help...

    Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 weeks now, and she really likes me but yesterday it all changed to me.

    Yesterday she kept saying she is 'confused' I ask her what about, and she doesn't know... She didn't seem the same as in lessons she sort of blocked me and hardly spoke to me.

    Later on yesterday night, she could tell I wasn't happy and I told her she didn't speak to me much and that... She was awww ok, and we hugged a bit.

    Today, it changes slightly. We both finished a seminar and she had to catch a train but I had rehearsals but I had to speak to my tutor... I said I would go to the train station with her she said 'no it's ok I see you when I get back' and she rushed off... No hugging or anything, my rehearsal was cancelled. I texted my gf that, and said I could come with her to the station but she took a while to send the text and the reply I got was 'Im at station now sorry x'.

    I just feel confused now! I am a lovely guy, and I really like her... But she just seems different for these two days

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    I may be wrong...but it kind of sounds like she is 'seeing someone else'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sazzya1987 View Post
    I may be wrong...but it kind of sounds like she is 'seeing someone else'.
    Nah, just losing interest.

    It's been two weeks. It happens, dude.

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    ..... or maybe you just hit your first speed bump. That also happens. Don't freak out. There's no reason to go into a panic just because somebody's confused. Calm down and kiss her, tell her you're happy to be with her and you hope everything gets back to normal soon. Confidence is rivetingly attractive.

    If she IS seeing someone else, this should help her to choose YOU.

    and if she's actually losing interest after only a couple of weeks, let her go.
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