How to aproach her.

[Earl]

I want to ask this.. Iam admirering a ladie next to my office, but i dont know how i can aproach her, she is loving and understands me but i want a way of aproaching her , should i invite her 4 dinner, should i visit her home or i invite her to come and visit my home. what could be the consquences that we are both working in the same building but different companies?

[Gigabitch]

The consequences could be pretty dire if you freak her out to the point where she never wants to see you again, so here you go:

1. Do not invite her to your home. You don't know her.
2. Do not invite yourself over to her home. See # 1.
3. Dinner is too serious for a first encounter. You work right next to each other. Invite her to lunch.

[Ellynn]

I agree with Giga. If a man asked me to his house or wanted to come over for dinner and I didn't hardly even know him, I would be freaked out.


Why not invite her to lunch or better yet, out for coffee or a drink?