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    Guys! What will you do??

    I'm sure many guys would have encountered this scenario before, you and your gf quarrel for whatever trivial thing or serious thing in the public while you were out, whatever it is at all, and she ups and walks off in anger, so you chase after her, trying to get her to stop and talk.

    But she just continues doing her own stuff, ignoring you, shopping, and you look like an idiot standing behind her. What will you do? Walk away? Grab her and make a scene? or Wait til she cools down before trying to talk to her again?

    If any girl sees this, maybe you can tell us, WHAT DO YOU EXPECT GUYS TO DO???

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    Well after trying to apologize, I'd leave her there, take the car and tell her to call when she's done. No use standing there like an idiot.
    "So tonight, when you're wondering what to say, or how you look, or whether or not she likes you, just remember, she is already out with you. That means she said yes when she could have said no. That means she made a plan when she could have just blown you off. So that means it is no longer your job to try to make her like you. It is your job not to mess it up."

    -Hitch

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    Quote Originally Posted by way_landr View Post
    I'm sure many guys would have encountered this scenario before, you and your gf quarrel for whatever trivial thing or serious thing in the public while you were out, whatever it is at all, and she ups and walks off in anger, so you chase after her, trying to get her to stop and talk.

    But she just continues doing her own stuff, ignoring you, shopping, and you look like an idiot standing behind her. What will you do? Walk away? Grab her and make a scene? or Wait til she cools down before trying to talk to her again?

    If any girl sees this, maybe you can tell us, WHAT DO YOU EXPECT GUYS TO DO???
    I'd go date someone less dramatic.

    Seriously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mathias View Post
    I'd go date someone less dramatic.

    Seriously.
    I'm sure...I wouldnt want to date someone like that either if i had known that the girl have a tendency to do this when the relationship is more mature.

    No offence, but you speak as if if your girl did this to you, you'd dump her on the spot and go look for another girl.

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    That behavior needs to be shut down without making you look like an asshole.

    Just let her walk. It was her decision to leave the table, and tell her you respect that. Give her ten minutes, and then go home.

    See Mathias' post.
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    a) if you chase after her, you look like an idiot
    b) if you stoop to her level and try to make her look bad, you look like an idiot
    c) if you keep your composure and let her storm off, you look mature.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mathias View Post
    I'd go date someone less dramatic.

    Seriously.
    It could be that time of month you know.



    But if it was me I would basically do what Giga said.

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    Quote Originally Posted by way_landr View Post
    No offence, but you speak as if if your girl did this to you, you'd dump her on the spot and go look for another girl.
    None taken.

    I really would. Not even kidding.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NeoSeminole View Post
    a) if you chase after her, you look like an idiot
    b) if you stoop to her level and try to make her look bad, you look like an idiot
    c) if you keep your composure and let her storm off, you look mature.
    Done and done.

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