man & pornography?

[Zach]

Im glad to see Im the only one here who hates porn. Indeed, hope is the only thing I have.

[Zach]

When I first turned 13 or so I was introduced to the world of Porn, and I was very excited. I was aroused like crazy by it. 2 Years later I met my first real girlfriend, and I only ever saw her twice. We only talked on the phone and we grew to love each other. We were young and happy. After a while things didn't work out and we never saw each other so we moved on. This was my first experience with emotional love and the world of females.

My second serious relationship started immediately afterwards and for the first time I was sexual with a real person. It was by far, more arousing than porn. Meanwhile through out all of this I had been watching porn also. After a while me and her split for various reasons and I continued to look at porn.

Then I finally met the girl I just lost. This time, I felt true love for the first time. I felt what it could be and can only imagine what it could have been in years to come. I loved her like nothing in my life, I loved so hard I cried. I simply was in awe of the intimacy and connection between us. After experiencing an intimacy like this I look at porn now and I am disgusted. Pornography is sex without intimacy and intimacy itself in the depths I felt are 90% of the satisfaction alone. Learn to love and connect with the person you love. Intimacy can go so much deeper than I even know Im sure and after feeling it I will never be the same.

I know I am usually alone in my opinion on porn, but I cant deny what i felt. It feels dirty to look at it and I hold sex on a much more sacred level than to just do it for the simple physical feeling. Am I wrong to feel like this? And if so then why? I seem to be the only one to think like this and I really don't understand why.

[Gigabitch]

Im glad to see Im the only one here who hates porn. Indeed, hope is the only thing I have.

There's so much evil in the world that porn just doesn't compare to- I can't be bothered to hate it. I'm just generally disinterested. I feel the same way about it as I do about any other thing people can become obsessed with it's a People problem, not a Porn problem.

[Junket]

I seem to be the only one to think like this and I really don't understand why.

You're an idealist.

That's why.

[Zach]

Hell no you're not wrong to feel that way. Why would that be wrong? You're certainly out of the norm, and frankly I'd consider you weird, but doesn't mean you're wrong.

I think you hold "humanity" in too high regard. If you think of humans as animals with an over-developed brain that tends to invent problems, it becomes much easier to accept porn as a derivative of the basic procreation drive.

Mohandas K. Gandhi:
You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.

Just a quote that may pertain to this. I thought it was good.

[Junket]

Mohandas K. Gandhi:
You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.

Just a quote that may pertain to this. I thought it was good.

You know why you thought it was good?

Because you're an idealist.

That's why.

[Zach]

You know why you thought it was good?

Because you're an idealist.

That's why.

I am indeed. And my internet connection is starting to piss me off cause It wont let me post! Grr.

[Junket]

I am indeed. And my internet connection is starting to piss me off cause It wont let me post! Grr.

You know why it won't let you post...?

[Zach]

You know why it won't let you post...?

Because my computer hate Idealist, and my router sucks.

[Junket]

Because my computer hate Idealist, and my router sucks.

I don't know about your router...

But it is because you're an idealist.

[Henry123]

With porn I'm neutral with it. Its done by consenting adults and as long as no one is getting hurt I dont mind. I accept the fact that various forms porn has been going on for thousands of years (theres even supposebly pornographic cave drawings for crying out loud. yeah and i thought it was just a modern invention), the Romans had it, the Grreks had it, ancient India and ancient China had it etc. Some couples like to watch porn together; others are exibitionists and need to make a public spectical to get a kick out of it (sheessh too much time on their hand I suppose?!). I dont think it will disapear anytime soon.

I would be more upset about other things in the world that I felt is truly bad though.

[King Zarathu]

With porn I'm neutral with it. Its done by consenting adults and as long as no one is getting hurt I dont mind. I accept the fact that various forms porn has been going on for thousands of years (theres even supposebly pornographic cave drawings for crying out loud. yeah and i thought it was just a modern invention), the Romans had it, the Grreks had it, ancient India and ancient China had it etc. Some couples like to watch porn together; others are exibitionists and need to make a public spectical to get a kick out of it (sheessh too much time on their hand I suppose?!). I dont think it will disapear anytime soon.

I would be more upset about other things in the world that I felt is truly bad though.

You are wrong.

[Henry123]

You are wrong.

Okay porn star!

[Undefeated_Heat]

well if you ask me it depends on how the girl is like.

[Ellynn]

If a guy looks a porn, I consider that normal. But if he does it constantly and cannot get off without it, I consider that abnormal.