For the record, my current situation is in no way the result of my playing games or dicking around. I've been honest, it just so happens that things are complicated
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It would be nice if we had some clue what you're talking about, but you hardly ever post about this. Is this still the same girl? Did she ever wake up and smell the Ben? Did you blow it by not walking her to the door that one night?Originally Posted by TDurden
What's up, Mr. Honest?
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This is still the same girl. I don't think I blew it by not walking her to her door. It's been long and complex so I'll just mention the key stuff.
We didn't talk for months, then outta the blue we were talking and hanging out again then she disappeared again. She had said she was stressed about school so I assumed that might be it but then I tried to contact her mutliple ways (phone, email, online stuff) and got no reply. At that point I was ready to say **** it but I still wanted to get some closure and when I tried I found out some information that pretty much explains the last couple months in full.
Without going into possibly risky details she is at a point in her life where things are really messed up and she's pretty much a mess. I decided not to give up rather just keep my options open. If I meet someone then great, if not I'll hold out and try and be supportive until her life gets back on track and she can begin to think about the idea of a relationship.
By the way the reason I don't talk about it much is because it's an extremely frustrating situation and so I'd imagine it would make for a frustrating thread seeing as I'm not likely to change my mind about continuing doing what I'm doing despite the fact that that would be the healthy thing to do
Last edited by TDurden; 11-12-06 at 07:50 AM.
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I see.
Our situations are fairly similar.
'Cept your girl isn't a few hundred miles away (I assume).
Sounds like she may as well live in Antarctica.
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She's like 15 minutes away, so it's probably a bit easier for me.
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We should revert to old times when you wouldn't bother marrying outside of your village or city.
So first step will be to destroy the internet...
Nooooooooooo! The men here are substandard at best. Ask Misombra. We both had to import. Don't do it, Fras!
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