heartbreaking

[noodle307]

This is my first post, and the only reason i signed up for an account on this page is to talk to someone about this
so here it goes

About 2 years ago, i dated this girl. We dated for about 6 months i think, and i really liked her and shes beautiful and everything. But during 3 of those months she was in japan and i talked to her sometimes once a week, so during that time i felt real distant from her, about a month of so after she got back, i broke up with her(most regretted decision ever). So we still talked afterwards and were still friends and everything was good. But then we lost touch from a thanksgiving to sometime around the next march. So not that long, and we started talking again and geting really like we were you know? So she tells me she likes me again, and i liked her, but was hesitant to date her again, now, while all this is happening shes talking to another one of my friends who shes friends with, and he likes her. So after a while she asks me if i want to date her, but dumbass me didnt really make it clear that i did, and kind of pushed it off. So thats when she starts talking to the other guy more, and eventually one morning i wake up and find out that there dating now, so rightfully so, i was crushed. And theyve been dating since(8/13/06). Now heres the problem, since then weve still talked and she will always tell me about how much she loves me and really wants to be with me, and everytime i say she can be i want to be with her, she doesnt want to break up with her boyfriend. And they fight all the time it seems, and she always talks about how annoying his habit are, and ill always say, "then why are you dating him? im here for you now, i want to be with you" and shes like i know i know, and its just a real sh** situation. Ok so heres my question. Is there anyway to win her back? or do anything i can to get her back, or break up with her boyfriend now? i dare say i am actually in love with this girl.

sorry its so long, its a long tale

[TDurden]

You're an asshole.

You break up with this girl and regret it. Then she throws herself at you and you reject her. She moves onto someone else and you try and break them up. And now you're asking for tips on how to end their relationship faster.

If you were a half-way decent person you'd try and support her in her current dating situation and not try to steal her back.

You make me sick.

[King Zarathu]

Dickhead.

[Gigabitch]

You guys crack me up.

Listen, noodle, you're suffreing from something a lot of guys have. The "I just want what I can't have" syndrome. How many chances did you have with her before you decided you were in love with her? I count three, am I wrong?

If her relationship with this other guy is so awful, it will end soon enough. Please try to respect her, yourself, and the very concept of romance in general enough to wait for this to happen before you poke your nose into their business.

[Mathias]

You guys crack me up.

Listen, noodle, you're suffreing from something a lot of guys have. The "I just want what I can't have" syndrome. How many chances did you have with her before you decided you were in love with her? I count three, am I wrong?

If her relationship with this other guy is so awful, it will end soon enough. Please try to respect her, yourself, and the very concept of romance in general enough to wait for this to happen before you poke your nose into their business.

Listen to Giga. She knows stuff.

[Junket]

Listen to Giga. She knows stuff.

Listen to Mathias, he knows Giga knows stuff.

[Gigabitch]

Listen to Fras. He knows everything.