It depends very much on your feelings, if you love your boyfriend/girlfriend, I believe 4-5 times a day is something normal.If you don't have love in your relantionship 1-2 times a day is enough.
My Authored Books and Website about Online Dating
Chemistry and Numbers: The Online Dating Guide and Website
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Chemistry and Numbers 2: Sexy, Funny, Horrifying, and Yes, Successful Online Dating Stories from more than 50 Online Daters
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