Originally Posted by
Frasbee
You're not in a healthy relationship yet.
And being the case you haven't told her yet, why the hell are you whining so much?
Seriously, the only person you have here to blame for your discontent is yourself. See, the problem with guy and girls is that they think differently. You might think-
"Hey, we get a long, we have all this in common, I'm attracted to this girl, I'll talk to her more, pay special attention to, and be there for her more to show what a swell guy I am and hopefully she'll take the hint and want to go out with me."
Girls will think in response-
"Hey, what a swell guy this is, he's so nice, we have all this in common, he's always there when I need a shoulder to cry on, what a great guy to have around, I'm so glad we're friends."
Because why waste a good stable friend on such a risk as a romantic relationship?
See, girls are selfish like that, but they don't know it, and they can't help it. So you gotta be upfront for what you want, you gotta step the **** up, grow some balls, stop bein' a friend and be a god damn man.
You need to pull her aside and ask her out on a date, whether it's goin' to grab a bite, or simply going for a stroll. But ya gotta tell her that you're interested without scaring her off with "I wanna marry you." If she isn't keen on the idea after you let her know you have some feelings with her, then chances are she never will be. And that will be your cue to leave this one, even if it means no friendship.
If you can't live with being friends without being sorrowful or spiteful, than you can't settle for being friends, even if she wants to. It's not always what's best for her, it's what's best for you too. The only woman I can think of who you should be idolizing is your mother, and even then I have my own qualms with that as well.