Its not that I don't want to go for it, its just right now is not a good time with certain circumstances and the consequences would not be good for either of us if we pursued it. But in the future, I guess anything is possible.
As for what attracts me more in a man....well its a combo of both. I like a confident man, or a man who has certain confident attributes. But, I like a guy who is also shy in ways. I guess maybe because thats how I am. I can be so confident when it comes to certain things...while other things make me become this shy introverted person. Crazy.