How to not love??

[tired-of-love]

Aaaaaaaahhhhh... help me!!
I am in love, but I don't want to be. I really don't.
I just got out of a really serious heartbreaking relationship and I don't wanna feel anything like that again for a looong time.
But now there's that other guy, that I just met. He's really nice. I think the reason why I like him is because it's all new and fresh. No bullshit and all. And it's interesting, because we get to know each other every day a little more.
I thought I just liked him as a friend... but now I realized.. I think I like him as a 'more than a friend'-friend.... I don't want that. Because, (I know everybody says that, but it's actually true) I don't have a chance with him. I'm just another one of his hundreds of friends that are girls (I think he's gay, but I'm not sure).
This is terrible. I don't want to like anyone like that for a while. Because I don't wanna get hurt again right away. But I don't wanna stop hanging out with him either... because he's fun, and he makes me happy.
Please help me someone. PLEASE!
How do I fall out of love??

[Ellynn]

I wish I knew the answer to that one. I also wish we could control our feelings.

Lonliness/heartbreak will do that to you, make you fall for someone when you least expect it sometimes. I think its because of all the attention he shows you and how well you two get along.

[A-GAME]

Tell me about it! I'm in love now and at the wrong time...I wish I can find a solution.

[michaelmorgan]

Ok, too many broken hearts around...I'll share on Monday night a little visualisation/imagery that does help to relieve a broken heart.

[The Great OV!!!]

Does he buckle your knees when you see him or is it another one of those stupid attachment things that I don't understand?

[Gigabitch]

You might just be attaching yourself to him because you're so raw right now. Tell yourself you can't get involved for three months, like doctor's orders or something like that, and continue to hang out with him. You will probably see him completely differently by then.