Uhm....Help? :P

[Terpy]

Hiyas I'm new here but I gots this annoying problem and I really really would like to get it fixed, sorry about the length.

It all started last summer when I met this girl who I became madly in love with over time, but it wasn't lust thats for sure. Unfortunatly my friend also liked her but he lusted her >.<

Anyways time passed and we talked, etc...but remained friends. Well in the mean time my friend had asked her out a couple of times but she refused until she finally accepted him and they became boyfriend girlfriend type. Obviously I was depressed for a few weeks before my friend said that he wanted her only as a friend and nothing more, until he heared that I finally was gonna ask her out.
(I mean the time was right and I said "this is it") He had lied.

About 3 weeks passed but they only met on weekends and didn't kiss or anything and I don't know why and she finally left him. I was all happy and woot! I left about 4 days to pass and started to talk to her via Yahoo Messanger cause I only see her in the weekends. The only problem is that now she is like ignoring me, she responds to my instant message with either a "lol" or nothing or takes about 5 mins to respond me. She claims that she is always busy but I found out that she wasnt.

Time continued passing and my friend and she became very good friends and I didnt want this. She talked normally too him on the messanger, always talking to him everyday and ignoring me. And to make things worst I think that they have grown feelings for each other but my friend, i dont know why, admitted that he only wants her just to annoy me cause he doesnt want me with her.

So here is the summary:
1) She doesnt talk to me, and I don't bother to talk to her since I know I will have a very uneasy and she will ignore me.
2) I still feel for her.
3) I think she used to feel for me.
4) Valantine is comming and I need a plan.
5) She has a crush on somebody else now.
6) She loves punk/rock music and I only know a little bit about this type of music. (Mentioned this cause I know she like to talk about it)
7) My friend is resisting from asking her again
8) Now she says im'"Yuck" (And believe me I aint i was given 8.75/10 cuteness scale by a lot of girls ^^)

Oh and her birthday is up about a month from now and i can use a plan for that day too. I just want her to talk to me again and then I can take it from there.

Thnx a million

[Terpy]

Btw forgot to mention sometimes when I see her face to face and she teases me, after shes done teasing she directly eye contacts me for about 5 seconds, she just stares at my eyes with her mouth about 2 cm open

[The Great OV!!!]

my friend, i dont know why, admitted that he only wants her just to annoy me cause he doesnt want me with her.

You call that a friend?

This entire two friends going after one girl is a no no....only place I saw this was in highschool and only in the retarded jock group because they just had these girls they passed around.

[Terpy]

You call that a friend?

No i asked myself the same thing. But I got my revenge later

anyways any ideas on what i should do?

[Mathias]

Stay away.

[The Great OV!!!]

No i asked myself the same thing. But I got my revenge later

anyways any ideas on what i should do?

You got your revenge later?

Anyways, if you still like her and want her then you let her know, sounds like she is a bit immature maybe? she doesn't know what she wants herself it seems like, big stares at you and draws hearts on you and then goes out and says that you are yucky? I don't get it.

[Terpy]

yea i got my revenge, i had a fist fight with him but then we were stopped by a friend, but i think he learnt the lesson.

Hm...she know that I like her but i don't think it can make much of a difference. And no she isnt immature, maybe shes shy of...uhm...opening her heart when she is surrounded by her other friend, she IS shy most of the times.

But my main aim for the moment is to get things back to normal, i want to have hour long conversations again with her, i want her to always stay next to me when we are hanging out, that sort of stuff. I want her a good friend again atm,
and turn this "friend" from her mate to a stranger.

[koolwhip]

the yahoo messenger part.

have you ever heard of a game called the grapevine? or telephone?
it has to do with rumors and almost always the last person gets hurt.

your case could practically be the game.
someone who doesnt want you to go out with her starts rumors.

its not all true.

And

as you may have heard from your parents. or tv. violence is not the answer.

AND

dood, if you actually believe she likes you and you like her, then go for it, theres nothing stopping you except this invisible barrier called "guilt and fear"

good luck!

[Terpy]

dood, if you actually believe she likes you and you like her, then go for it, theres nothing stopping you except this invisible barrier called "guilt and fear"

yea but now she likes someone else and i'm gonna have to wait

[Terpy]

well any ideas? I suffering here lol

[Gigabitch]

If she thinks you're "yuck", you don't have much to lose. Make a gesture. Give her a flower or something. At least talk to her, message her, something.

[koolwhip]

if you wait then theres no point...is she going out with the person she likes? then theres a problem...but if shes not, maybe shes just playing hard to get or something..go for it dood

[Junket]

You're such a kid...