Am I in love?

[saf186]

I have a huge decision to make in my life between being with my g/f, or moving to california with my family. My g/f would be the perfect wife, i care so much about her, and i know she loves me for sure. the only way im going to stay with her is if i am truly in-love with her and end up marrying her. If i stay with her, i will definintly not be financially stable, and i will miss my family like crazy. but if i am in love with her, then it's worth leaving my family and living crappy to stay with her. the reason im so unsure about if i love her or not is because i dont miss her like crazy if i dont see her for a couple days, i miss her of course..... but im not dying to c her. I rarely get butterflies. But we have tried breaking up and every time we try, we BOTH cry our eye's out. If im not sure if i love her, why is it so hard to leave her? since i cry so much, does that mean i lvoe her? I need the true definition of love., I know nobody here can tell me if i love he or not. thanks for reading this!

[Junket]

You're not gonna live the rest of your life with butterflies in your stomach.

You've tried breaking up before?

Interesting...does that tell you something?

[Gribble]

Go with your family. Marriage is a big step. I take it the only reason you're really considering it is because you're forced to make a decision. The last thing you need to do is stay behind to get hitched without a means to support yourself. That's just asking for trouble. And an early divorce.

[The Great OV!!!]

By my tradition, the woman leaves her family to live with the man...not the other way around...take her to Cali with you.