Regaining selfesteem

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I got out of bad relationship 9 months ago. I've posted my situation a couple of times on here. My selfconfidence and self esteem plunged down. I mean, i've never felt like this before ever. I feel great discomfort and feeling that i'm going to be rejected. I was hurt so bad in my previous relationship that i just can't trust people. I want to, but it seems to me that he i approach the girl i like she just gonna laugh at me or reject me. Well, does anyone out there had the same problem? Had anyone overcome their problem? Please help to get out of this vicious situation...

[Gigabitch]

Lio, it takes at least a year. Think of it as a traumatic physical injury, like getting a huge gash torn into your torso in a car wreck. It takes a long, long time for something like that to heal.

Your job is to make sure you get all the poison out of your system so it heals clean, because your future wife shouldn't have to pay for what your ex did.

You should be posting more. You're still mad as Hell.

[anachronistic]

yes i overcame the problem. i've been rejected so many times by girls that i barely give a **** anymore. i know there are many women out there, so why let just one ruin my life like that?

scheisse, just learn to appreciate more things in life than women; they're great, but they can't be your world.

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I don't know how you do it Giga, but you always hit the bulls eye. At least in my posts. You adorable, thank you.

[Gigabitch]

I don't know how you do it Giga, but you always hit the bulls eye. At least in my posts. You adorable, thank you.

Well, I've been through it, you see. I'm still here, too. Getting your heart broken is not the end of the world because human beings are amazingly resilient. You'll be fine.

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yes i overcame the problem. i've been rejected so many times by girls that i barely give a **** anymore. i know there are many women out there, so why let just one ruin my life like that?

scheisse, just learn to appreciate more things in life than women; they're great, but they can't be your world.

You right bro, they great but not everything.... Geee......... I just need to relax...