It's a strategic battlefield...what would u do.

[Kabus]

First, hi all, I'm fresh around here and must apologise for jet another topic, but this dilema bugs me now for weeks, so I wanna get some advice.
Here it goes...

It all starts with a girl, she broke up with her long-term relationship bf 4 months ago. I asked her out, before I found out about that. Well then she told me about the bf and that she doesn't want any emotional atachtments in this moment, only emotion-free dating. But she invites me into her company everytime. It's all good, I respect her decision 100%, we talk normaly and so on, i feel good to, around her. And yes.. please don't tell me, she is just playing with me.. for that, she is way to honest. Now, do u think time could make a difference? Hope so, it's normal to be emotionaly closed after such short time. Anyway, hope to hear only positive answers, cause i'm full of negative shit already.

p.s. yes, there are other girls/women, but she is something special for me, so the effort is worth it

p.p.s. sry for my english, not my mother language

[vashti]

Why don't you just enjoy the relationship for what it is at the moment and quit trying to read the future? She told you she just wants to have some fun; if I were you, I would believe her, and leave it at that.

[CAM]

Enjoy yourself. If you are already full of "negative shit" then that means you are already on the defensive with her (probably subconsciously) because you (naturally) don't want to get hurt.

Enjoy. Que sera sera, etc.