I have taken my g/f to the gym and she has made improvements but then she just doesn't really take it any further. Its like if I'm not saying anything about it, then she doesn't feel the need to go. I'm also afraid that I'm just bored and thinking with the other head. If I go out and ravage some other girl I think I will then miss my current g/f. If that makes sense.
By the way, she has weight issues her whole life. There are some deep rooted emotional issues with her weight. Plus shes latin, so I think she is predisposed to putting on weight. Bottom line, I think the spark is just gone. We seem more friends than anything else. But she is incredibly in love with me. I have tried to break up with her, and she lost it. I mean suicidal talk, etc. We since met with a therapist which helped immensly, but there is just something missing. I'm just so afraid to throw away someone like her. She is not your average girl. With the exception of the suicidal talk and being overweight, she is really one the best person I have ever met. It kills me to think of hurting her.