Re-Love again?

[agrab]

Hello there

I am about to have a relation with someone who was deceived in a previous love in his past... Do you think he would be able to love me truely better than his first lover?
I like him but I don't want to push him towards me I need him to really love me a bigger love than his previous

do you think this is possible even if he is still hurt?

[NeoSeminole]

is he capable? Yes

will he? Well, that depends on how great of a gf you are.

[Gigabitch]

The whole thing will work much better if he comes to understand that his past relationship has nothing to do with you or your relationship with him.

You could help with that by never comparing yourself to her. She is in the past. You are now. Don't bring her into your life any more than she has to be.

[1averagejoe]

The whole thing will work much better if he comes to understand that his past relationship has nothing to do with you or your relationship with him.

You could help with that by never comparing yourself to her. She is in the past. You are now. Don't bring her into your life any more than she has to be.

+1
I can't stress this enough...I made the mistake about constantly asking about my girlfriend's ex and if he did this or that about him and at sometimes compared myself. Bad idea...I talked to her about it and she agreed that I was wrong in doing that but she never wanted to really say anything about it. Funny thing was we ended up talking about things she did and we've since gotten closer. Nothing like making your relationship stronger.

[CAM]

I agree with Giga.

[Quiz_Master]

Re-Love ....
Possible...Yes.

Depend upon how good you treat him.
Do you really want to be with him or u r just attracted towards him.
If its just attraction, then don't go too close to him, It will hurt him again.

[Lovebubble]

If he's still hung up on what happened, then back off and give him time to get over it. And I also agree with Quiz master, if you're not real serious, then just keep it cool.