I really can't find anyway to help my friend. We were supposed to do a lot of things together, but all of a sudden she just disappeared. She has disappeared from the earth for very long time, and I didn't know why, until I recieved her email reply recently...
She said that she has got too much going on in her life to deal with, so
she kind of just want to solve her own problems first, and she also asked me not to ask her about what happened to her. However, she did tell me that she was suffering for depression symdrome, such as hearing her heavy heartbeats and unable to breathe, and she was terrified by that!
Now I am really worrying about her. I sent her some long e-mails to
suggest her the ways to deal with it, and she said she would like to try.
However, she just disappears again. She doesn't tell me about her situation,
and she never tells me what really happens to her, so I really don't know
how to help her.
I sent her an e-mail again for every week. I has sent her some articles to read, and I've invited her to join the school party on this weekend, but I never got any of her response I am really confused now. If she can tell me that she is suffering now, why doesn't she refuse to let me help her? and why can't she tell me what happen to her? and why she has to avoid to see me when she is down? Don't we want to get along with our good friends when we are upset? and in this kind of situation, how can I help her? You know, I just can't sit here and see my friend suffering, so I really need to do something...
Can you reslove the mystery? If we all can't find out what is going on,
what is the best way to support her, or at least cheer her up? or at least get her response again???
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