The beginning of the end

[cheeze_guy]

Ok well here is my story of sadness...

I started dating this girl 3 and a half years ago. I was 18 she was 14. She was my buddy's little sister and I knew she had a crush on me but I was older and I didn't think anything of it plus I couldn't do that to my friend. One day she looked me in the eyes and said that she really liked me and she said that she wanted to be with me. I know she was younger then me but she looked me in my eyes and she was soooo soft that I kissed her and then we were hooked.

We dated for a good 3 years and it was amazing never really had any relationship problems (or at least serious ones) but during this 3 years my mom divorced my step-dad and then she met a guy in Ontario so she moved there and I was stuck in Montreal with my step-dad. He drank a lot and started calling my mom a whore all the time so I needed to get out of that house, I got a job as a dishwasher and got my own apartment. During this time I started going to trade school to be an automechanic.

The government decided that since my parents (who i dont even live with) make too much money so I couldn't get a student loan to help me out and to make a long story short I ended up a homeless working student and I had nowhere to go. My girls parents took me under there wing and have been letting me stay while I finished school. I Finished school about 2 weeks ago and my girfriend is graduating high school in about a month.

Anyways once I moved in about 2 months after I could tell I was getting a bit too much into her space so I backed off stayed at my buddies houses as much as I could to stay out of her way to make her happy and it worked she stopped bein so angry and we worked it out or so I thought.

She went on a europe trip with her school and got back about 5 days ago and when she got back I could tell something was up. Anyways I tried talking to her but she wouldn't tell me anything and I was mad frustrated so I got angry and asked if there was another guy or something like that. She assured me no and I believe her but I just didn't understand why she was acting so weird!

3 days ago she tells me that she is not in love with me anymore and that she wants me out of her house and this is the house that I live in at the moment. I just finished school and I've been looking for a job as a mechanic and I'm looking for an apartment but truthfully I don't want to leave I really thought I had something special with this girl and I can't just let it end like this before I actually succeed at my goals and she wont be there beside me to congradualte me is soo harsh.

I'm not stupid I know that I won't be able to say anything to get her to change her mind but I reall think she just needs time and space. She wants to be friends but I don't know how I'm supposed to be friends with a girl I love so much and evben worse I could never be cool with her dating anyone else! I know it is the end and I know that at least right now she for sure won't take me back. I don 't understand how I know all this and I work so hard to make sure that my life wont get anymore ****ed up (well at least more then I can control) I don't really need advice because I know that some ppl will say shes too young anyways I just wonder if its time that we need or if I just straight up need to get out of this house and live in a shelter until I find an apartment because when I see her it hurts sooo ****in bad! Thanx for listening

Bri

[Gigabitch]

Move out immediately. Give her a chance to miss you. Every moment you spend taking care of your own shit will be a moment you look better and better to her.

[cheeze_guy]

thanx for the advice

[Glyph]

You started dating a 14 year-old at 18? Gross.

[cheeze_guy]

u wouldnt say that if u met this girl but its all good im sure its over but I just got a job today as a mechanic! so i'm sure everything will work out in some way! PEACE!

[clynn]

Congratulations on getting the new job!

I must say that you sound like a pretty impressive young guy - because you moved out of your step dad's house when things got tough and went to work as a dishwasher. And then you went to school and graduated and saw the whole programme through.

I'm sorry things are not well with you and your girlfriend (or ex girlfriend, I guess).

All the very best with the new job!!

And in finding a really cool new apartment! Yahoooo!

[anachronistic]

glad to here things are taking the flipside for you. i was a little worried when i saw the thread title on the home page.

keep us updated.

[Gribble]

Fourteen? That is sick. Don't care what she looks like, she's just a baby. Ewh. She probably still has Barbie Dolls.

[cheeze_guy]

yo first off I'm not a fagget obviously she had no barbies and she was mad mature she had a job anyways I don't even feel like explaining because itll make me miss her but for real she was amazing and I'm not even just saying hot (which she is) , she understood the shit i was going through! and I don't have a perfect life and shit is ****ed up but ya shes 18 now anyways so dont be gay! and I am definitly not the most mature man on earth anyways so we really were good for each other and she was my queen and I treated her like one! I'm off to find a new queen! Just kidding i cant handle that right now I'll stick to the random booty calls!P.S life is gettin better I had work today and it was sick and I am one good mechanic and sexy too peace!

[Glyph]

Just because a girl can look and dress like an adult doesn't mean she is one.

I know it's falling on deaf ears, I'd just look in a different dating pool the next time you're looking for a girlfriend. One that's not the kiddie pool.

[cheeze_guy]

oooooo ya yo obviously i dont plan on dating a young girl like that especially now but I was younger and it happend what can i say at least im not in denial and not putting someone down for loving someone COUGH!

[Gribble]

Whatever, man. If I caught an 18 year old punk with my little sister I'd rip his cock off and make him eat it. And that's if I was in a good mood.

[cheeze_guy]

ok ok im a bad person thank u i should have just lied about the age cuz that isnt even the point but whatever I'm done speaking on this shit thanx for yer input!

PEACE

[clynn]

You guys were really hard on him!!

Geeze!

That was years ago. They were together for 3-4 years.

[cheeze_guy]

well o cheer up the ppl who think im a fag for dating her and to keep this shit up to date I came home tonight and she was in bed with another guy and it was a guy she went to europe with anyways I know she cheated on me and It actually makes me feel better because now I know for sure this was never meant to be anyways I'll let u know if i get my apartment I look at it tomorrow!

PEACE!