Should I?

[okapa]

Hey guys...

I was browsing the forum and as actually saw some good answers instead of the usual jokes so I decided to ask for help in my problem...


First of all I'm only 15, so don't take it that seriously.

So... there is this girl I've liked for some time but I have only started to flirt with her for a month or so... She became a great friend and we often trade text messages, we talk alot and I've been able to profit some "closer than usual moments".

I managed to sit near her (enough to spend most classes talking to her) and I usually hang with her all day... Even alone some times.

But apart from all that, I don't think she likes me, she doesn't look for me much - it's more the other way around, she doesn't start almost any text messaging conversations and she is sort of pissed of with my class so she doesn't walk with us very often...

This is one of the reasons I don't think she likes me... she is also trading text messages with other guys all day and I think she likes one of those boys, although she can't keep contact with him, other than messaging and she has been pissed of with him.


Well, I've had enough of it and although I like her, I don't think I can keep with this forever, I'm thinking of telling her tomorrow and wait for her answer... I'm not very positive about what she will say, but I think I better do that instead of forgeting her when there is always a small chance she might like me.

It will probably ruin my friendship with her, but I don't think I'll be going near her for a while if I decide to forget her... Help?

Thanks guys and girls : )

[Gigabitch]

It will probably ruin my friendship with her, but I don't think I'll be going near her for a while if I decide to forget her... Help?

At least you're clear on this- but I think you should understand that your "friendship" is already a sham, since you're actually crushing on her.

It's always best to be up-front.

We'll be here for you if you get shredded.

[okapa]

I probably will, but whatever...

Yeah, there was a time I wouldn't tell her anything because I was afraid it would wreck our friendship, but I don't think I can maintain it myself after, so...

She just sent me one of those "send me back if you love me messages"... :\

I'm not sending her anything, I prefer to tell her directly...

Am I doing wrong? Sorry to be asking help on everything, but it helps me deciding : P

[Gigabitch]

Well, don't leave her hanging too long after that message- that's not what a girl wants to see.

Go buy her a flower if you have time.

[CAM]

Yeah, just tell her and let the chips fall where they may. Years from now, it is much better to remember how you made a move but got shot down (or ended up with her) than it is to recall a much less exciting story about how there was this girl you liked, but never had the guts to tell her how much you liked her.

So, go ahead and make the move. The girl I made "the move" on and who was my first puppy love in 8th grade...she's a professional golfer now. Makes me smile to remember her.

Good luck.

[senatorbob10]

Give her a plump, yellow banana. If she sports a rash upon eating it, then she is NOT your soul mate.

Use condoms!