Respect and self respect in the east is a way of living, not like love or hate which is a momentary situation, you telling me that a 12 year old girl in a mini skirt is showing self respect?? you telling me a guy wearing more ****ing make up than a hooker shows respect?? I am not saying dont wear what you want, just dont wear something to gain acceptance or devalue yourself, that idea extends to other parts of my life, i will never be nice to you just because i want to be accepted, i am nice to you because that the way i want to be treated back