I'm a bitch.

[twisted]

LOL easier said than done...it's his bestfriend...1) i wouldn't want to live with the guilt weighing my conscience forever even if it owuld mean probably an awesome physical experience 2) he is a very loyal friend, i don't even think he would accpet something like that, he probably cares much more about his friendship with my bf than having sex with me once, and i think even if i was a photocopy of claudia schiffer it would be the same :|

....it would just be a huge mess... *SIGH*

[anxious]

LOL easier said than done...it's his bestfriend...1) i wouldn't want to live with the guilt weighing my conscience forever even if it owuld mean probably an awesome physical experience 2) he is a very loyal friend, i don't even think he would accpet something like that, he probably cares much more about his friendship with my bf than having sex with me once, and i think even if i was a photocopy of claudia schiffer it would be the same :|

....it would just be a huge mess... *SIGH*

LOL! you know you want it, by what you typed up.. seems you like you wouldn't mind it. SO do it now or latter on regreting it.

You might keep thinking the word "What if" i had a one nighter!?

so do it and find out if it just physicle.

If i m right you are aleady thinking about the " what if? " that my best advice to you.

[vashti]

I can't believe anyone would take your suggestion seriously, anxious (no offense). In this case, it is better to regret the thing that you *didn't* do than to regret the thing you did. Genuine remorse over hurting someone is very hard to live with.

[zro]

you really are a ****ing idiot anxious, a one night stand will just make shit worse, "what if" she ****s this friend and then her boyfriend finds out and dumps her slutty ass, i do agree with you that from her post, it sounds like she wants to try, if you do then twisted you ARE a BITCH and dont deserve your boyfriend

if you really like this friend and plan on spreading yor legs, you should break it off with your boyfriend first, you at least owe him that

otherwise take the other poeple's advice and get the **** over it

[Gribble]

What is it with you and insults? I kid around sometimes, sure, but you... can't you talk to another human being without calling names?

[zro]

well i treat you like how you deserve to be teated, can you tell me that anxious's suggestion isnt an idiotic suggestion??

if twisted decides to follow through on her desires while still having a boyfriend then she is a bitch..right??

i dont call people names for no reason, i do it when its warranted, have i called you anything?? no, but if you give me a reason - you can bet your life i will, this is a forum where IMO the main objective is honesty, not being nice or making friends, i am just being honest

[twisted]

no I don't want to try anything. there is an immense difference between *thinking* and *doing*. i call myself a bitch because the mere thought of all of this makes me feel like a piece of shit, never mind just guilty. but everyone wants to be desired.
i know i made this issue public, because I wanted advice and support, but I don't feel it's necessary to insult people over a dumb thread. It's my problem right?

[zro]

twisted, i didnt call you a bitch...yet, if you read my post carefully you will see that i said , IF you **** the "friend" while still having a boyfriend, THEN you would be considered a bitch and a slut in my book, but as of now - to my knowledge you havent done that yet... so you are not a bitch...yet

[Gigabitch]

Twisted, this crush isn't about the best friend guy. At all. If he didn't exist, you'd be projecting this anxiety onto someone else. It's about you and your relationship, and I think if you do as Glyph suggested and ask yourself the tough questions (and give yourself the honest answers), this fixation will vanish like a puff of smoke.

Good for you for being responsible enough to try to deal with it rather than just jump on the guy.

[twisted]

no prob zro

thanks gigabitch...tomorrow he's coming over...it's hard to pretend.

[Marcel]

It is called CHEMISTRY....it is usually very short term if u know what I mean.
Move with your boyfriend asap....get away. It is not worth the risk of losing what you already have.
Advice of the day RESIST

Marcel

[Glyph]

well i treat you like how you deserve to be teated, can you tell me that anxious's suggestion isnt an idiotic suggestion??

if twisted decides to follow through on her desires while still having a boyfriend then she is a bitch..right??

i dont call people names for no reason, i do it when its warranted, have i called you anything?? no, but if you give me a reason - you can bet your life i will, this is a forum where IMO the main objective is honesty, not being nice or making friends, i am just being honest

It's possible to be honest without being a complete and utter dick. Almost everyone in this thread has been honest and given honest advice, and the only one throwing around names is you.

When you state your point of view in that fashion, it makes you sound like a self-righteous, immature kid whose "advice" doesn't deserve a second's worth of consideration. I damned sure wouldn't trust serious questions about my romantic life to someone who isn't mature enough to convey a strong opinion without having to belittle someone.

****ing get over yourself.

[Gigabitch]

Uh-oh. He angered the Glyph.

[twisted]

yes. i'm resisting. he...is..here right now. jesus. i can't wait until we leave. i need to get out of here.

[Gigabitch]

Yeah, but WHY are you all twisted about him? Is it really him? I seriously doubt it. I think you've got some issues with your bf to deal with. What are they?