Love

[Iserbob]

How depressing.

I really don't know how much longer I can hold out. I'm going on 20 years old, and I've never been in a relationship. Actually, I've been in two, but neither of which were what I wanted of Love. The first was a love triangle that lasted for six months. And near the end of all that mess, I was just so sick of everything, that the relationship was pretty much beaten to the ground. The most recent, the second, was very one-sided. I was so in love with the other person, but they didn't feel the same, as it were.

And now, I'm just really tired of being lonely. I tell my friends how I feel, but i feel as though I am just boring them and burdening them with my depressive thoughts. I've tried to meet people even through the internet, but it just doesn't seem to work.

Maybe love just isn't for me.

[SpaZz]

I hear u dude, I've been thinking like that recently too. Can't seem to find the right girl. But eh we're young, there's still lots of time, as long as u'r open to it and keep ur eye's peeled.... it will happen. As my mate says. Shes a big believer in fate. LOL

[iLLuSioN_x]

Do you go out every weekend to clubs, disco, parties and stuff? Go in lots of places with young people and go flirt, keep trying and you'll eventually get a yes, and you may find someone you like.. don't just wait and do nothing hopping that the right person will fall into your arms.

[squirrley]

ok guys heres what happening when you do go out-youve got desperation written on your face and not confidence. Youre old enough to recognize the difference but youve got to change within yourself first. A lot of people want people in their lives but it must be for the right reasons. Youre lonely-alone and feeling that filling that void with someone is going to make it better. It wont. You need to be in a place in your life where youre comfortable with you and youre happy with yourself first. Then when you enter a relationship youre adding to it and not filling any voids or for the wrong reasons. Is it possible that you could go out and date people without having the "NEED" to have them in your life? Because there is a difference too! A need verses a want. When youre at a point of needing someone it does reflect in your behavor. When youre wanting someone it also shows but at a different level.

Go out and find things to do-make yourself available to people-but be confident-be yourself. Have fun with life-youre still young and have lots to experience-but have the head on your shoulders and confidence that someone will come into your life that deserves you and vice versa.

I wish you guys luck-have fun with life-its too short!!! Before you know it youre 30 and going "oh shit where did the last 10 years go?" Im sersious youve got to have fun!

[Clifton]

and by the way, clubs,parties, ect are a good way to get laid illusional, not a good way to find a relationship, hah

[dragoon]

Squirrley nailed it.