Originally Posted by
lilwing
the whole wait-until-married-to-**** thing scares me.
people just need to ****. it's a need.
Why is it so scary to you? No seriously. I'm not making fun or anything, I just don't get this 'need' for sex that just about everyone seems to have except me.
Originally Posted by
Tiay
I could if I already loved someone and found out they had this opinion, as long as they were still willing to do everything but sex. However, if they mentioned it on the first date? no. especially since they're saying they don't want to have sex anymore, implying that they already have in the past.. seriously who would have sex and then give it up? anyway, I don't like religious types.
Not all people who aren’t into sex are religious types. Hell I’m practically a hard core atheist and even kinda against marriage, but I don’t seem to feel this ‘hunger for sex’ that most other people have naturally. Sure I’m attracted to people but I don’t feel a need to have sex. If I had a bf that I really loved then I know that I’d probably have to have sex with him to keep him happy unless he was like me. (very very very unlikely.. I know). But seems like most people wouldn’t be willing to sacrifice sex to stay with someone. Fair enough.
I say, only give up sex if you could really live without it and not end up resenting your partner. Because in the end if you’re a sexual person then it’s going to frustrate the hell out of you, and it will probably end up killing the relationship. Much better to be upfront with them about it if it bothers you so you can both move on before things get serious, and you end up cheating or worse forcing yourself on them when you're drunk or something. That would not be good.
Last edited by LoveTwist; 20-05-07 at 02:05 AM.
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