Sex, Power, and College Relationships

[meh]

Ok, admittedly it was wrong of her, sulk a bit, make her fret for a few days. I don't know the girl but she doesn't sound like a total bitch.

[bohemiandonut]

Me thinks you and me thinks a lot alike, Me
h.

[Gigabitch]

Ay, caramba.

It's either black or white with you, isn't it bd? Don't limit yourself this way.

Do you want to be with her? Then work it out. Are you done with her? Then put away the drama and end it. Right now, you're simply reacting to everything she does. Overreacting, actually. You're not her puppet. Quit looking to her for all of your cues (and tell her to get her hand out of your ass).

[bohemiandonut]

Black and white with me? This is your advice, in case you weren't paying attention:

"Do you want to be with her? Then work it out. Are you done with her? Then put away the drama and end it."

Monochrome philosophy if I ever saw it. My whole issue is HOW to work it out, not whether I should. I want her in my bed this summer, but I don't want to feel disrespected.

I see what you mean about cues though. It's a bit of a tough situation with her out of town. I guess I just feel she needs to be punished. I don't think she is so caniving that she will take my resentment of her as some victory on her part... or maybe she will. Maybe she's testing me? I'm confused.

[Gigabitch]

What I mean by black or white is that you instantly jump to the worst conclusion when she doesn't call you imediately upon entering into her cell service area, and you assign dark reasons to her not talking to you as she was on her way out of town. Maybe she didn't want to talk to you because she was afraid you were going to pick a fight with her. Did you think about that? I think you might be a bit demanding, and I could see how that might result in her reluctance to call you.

She sounds a little flaky, maybe even borderline rude, but c'mon, dude. You yourself have said that the only reason you're staying with her is the sex. Yet you demand respect from her. Does that sound fair?

You seem to require a lot of emotional reassurance from someone you're only interested in banging.