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    a lil advice from you would be gr8

    Ok Ill try to be as simple as possible . There is this girl I started to have a crush on a few months ago , we became friends and i actually started loving that girl . One day I decided to tell her i liked her . She told me she had feelings for me but she was going out with someone else ( i already knew that ) , then she kissed me . Almost a month ago she left her boyfriend and we ve been seeing eeach other since then. She made everything official a lil more then a week ago . The thing is that she is not over her ex and she wants time to choose to think and w-e . She told me i meant alot to her . I really love that girl and i dont want to loose her . / what should i do???

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    whats w-e?? some sort of kinky sex??

    first off, you cant be in love, you are in lust - you have only known this bitch for a couple of months, take it easy and probably going out straight after she broke with her ex is probably a bad idea

    if she says she needs "time" so be it, you can't force her into anything (thats called rape or being a weird mother****er) - give her space, if she likes you then she will "choose" you, if she doesnt....well she probably wasnt worth it in the first place, from the sounds of it this situation is out of your hands

    also, dont wait forever for this girl - you sound young, you dont want to spend 6 months hoping and end up getting screwed, by the same token dont let her play with you, eg jumping through hoops in order to please her

    all the above is just my ****ing opinion, whether you take it or not is up to you

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    If you could not post the same ****in' thing twice, that would be "gr8".

    Asshole.

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    What should you do?

    Stop being a pussy, that's what. Lose the chick. You're her back-up. Do you really want to be the guy she settles for? I would hope not.
    God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
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    complete headache from reading that. stupid kids that bastardize english!

    anyways, if what i think you asked is correct, SHE IS SEEING YOU.

    she should not need time to think and choose.

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    Maybe she's doing a scientific study on how much disrespect she can spread around before she gets dumped.
    Apparently, it's a lot.
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    Should I just end it now ?? and tell her we d be better off friends??

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    Should I just end it now ?? and tell her we d be better off friends??

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    Quote Originally Posted by junojuan1 View Post
    Should I just end it now ?? and tell her we d be better off friends??
    Could you repeat that one more time?

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    by the way frasbee, did you know the leopard slug mates by hanging upside down on a thick string of slime and copulates with this big ass penis type thing that comes out of it's "ear"?

    *gasp*

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    Quote Originally Posted by junojuan1 View Post
    Should I just end it now ??
    Yes.

    Quote Originally Posted by junojuan1 View Post
    and tell her we d be better off friends??
    Hell, no. Tell her YOU'D be better off staying away from somebody who jerks you around.
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    you're the rebound dude. end it

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    hmm my sistuation is the same .. but the girl im on about was not ova her x's she had a long term realationship ect..and ive been told to give her some time ..and people say time heals soo i think that might be the best option u but i not it hurts ....

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    well the guy was her best friend for years and they ve been dating for 1year and a half i think ..she said she jus wanted time for her own and didnt want to use me to get over him ..

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    try being there for her. give her a mount at utter most to get over her ex.

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