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    Is she with someone else?? ( PLEASE REPLY HERE)

    Ok here is the story

    Me and my gf broke up(she broke up with me) almost 4 months ago .

    Reason -

    She said that she wants to concentrate on her studies(we are in last year of high school and it is very important) and she can't take the pressure of this relationship . Well I believed her coz she is kinda into studies.

    So why I'm posting here?? -

    coz now I've joined a new class of physics(tuition) where she comes . She is not coming since the day I started(she didnt know I'm joining) . After three four days one of guy there told me that she is the gf of some other guy( this guy is the same who used to flirt with her and we used to fight on this issue) . And now both of them are not coming to that class.

    So my question is that is she with that guy??? None of her friends know anythin abt this . I'm going to ask some other students too abt this thing to confirm . In the meantime I want suggestions from you all. What should I do??

    Should I ask her abt this?? Please tell me somethin coz this thing is ****ing killing me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kai View Post
    So my question is that is she with that guy??? None of her friends know anythin abt this . I'm going to ask some other students too abt this thing to confirm . In the meantime I want suggestions from you all. What should I do??

    Should I ask her abt this?? Please tell me somethin coz this thing is ****ing killing me.
    I don't think it's any of your business. Why waste your time trying to find out about your ex, anyway? That's a perfectly good waste of time. Life is too short to do that kind of stuff. Just forget about her, dude.

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    well u know I still love her .

    Plz answer the question

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    unfortunately nobody here can say for sure. but it sure does sound like it.

    sorry kai.
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    It's too bad she couldn't have been more honest with you, but I agree with misombra. It looks like she has moved on. You probably just outgrew each other - that is very common in high school. Sorry.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    vashhhhhhhh! i thought you were gone. i already started missing you!
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    kai,
    obviously, she had dump you for another guy.
    You can ask her to confirm whether the relationship is really over and she got a new love?

    Hope time will heal your broken heart.

    Take care.
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    well good news guys

    I talked to her and she said there is nothin like that .

    That guy has some problem with her , that's why he told me all this bull$hit.

    Time to teach a lesson to that guy

    anyways thnx for help

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    ... and you believe her 'coz you love her.

    Let it go, dude!

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    well I trust her dude . She never lied to me

    anyways i'm missin her like anythin .

    I've one more question.

    a girl has a crush on me and I kinda had too after my break up.

    Should I go for that girl???

    she is my best friend

    but i'm afraid that I'll lose her too like I lost my ex

    I dont want to lose this girl in anyway.

    plzzz give some suggestions

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    No. Give it time before you start another relationship... or you'll end up hurting this one.

    If you still love your ex, chances are she still loves you too... she just need time to adjust her priorities. Be her friend (you ex, I mean) but don't treat her like the way you used to... be casual and smile. Works everytime...

    As for your crush, you have to assess yourself first. Do you really want her or do you just miss your ex so much that you want a proxy? Don't hurt other people because you're hurting...

    Now, get your ass moving!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexmaster View Post
    No. Give it time before you start another relationship... or you'll end up hurting this one.

    If you still love your ex, chances are she still loves you too... she just need time to adjust her priorities. Be her friend (you ex, I mean) but don't treat her like the way you used to... be casual and smile. Works everytime...

    As for your crush, you have to assess yourself first. Do you really want her or do you just miss your ex so much that you want a proxy? Don't hurt other people because you're hurting...

    Now, get your ass moving!
    i know man , I dont want to hurt her(best friend) in anyway . Tats why I stepped back


    and how many chances are there that she still loves me??

    1??

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