older women - good or bad?

[misombra]

If you want to sharpen your sexual skills just hire a prostitute

a prostitute will tell you you're great and you're the perfect man no matter what you do.

so long as you pay her.

if you want to sharpen your sexual skills, read the kama sutra, learn some breathing techniques that'll keep you from coming, ask your partner what he/she likes and doesn't like, etc.

[IndiReloaded]

Actually, not much training from the guy's perspective with women. We have simple wants, simple desires...to just "release."

Simply Bullshit, Cam.

I don't deny that "Full belly, empty balls" will get a girl a long ways, but it doesn't cover it for longterm relationships. Just like "funny and charming" will only get a fella so far.

A wise man also wants a contributing partner to help him run his life. Mine claims he has spent *years* training me up to the Fine Product I am today, lol. Its a mutual feeling.

I once told a good friend of mine that rather than *finding* a great mate, you are much more likely to help *uncover* them. Sort of like winning the lottery. A tiny few do. But most just try to set up decent starting conditions then work hard & keep their eyes on the distant goal post. It takes commitment tho, and patience. Lots of patience.

[DoesntMatter]

a prostitute will tell you you're great and you're the perfect man no matter what you do.

Well, if I told her to keep it real and tell me how much I sucked and what I could do to improve, and pay more if she told me how I was messing up, I don't think so. Like I could say to her "Be honest- I'm expecting to hear what I'm doing wrong, so I better hear it"

[Jimmy1218]

lol, prostitudes are ugly drug addicts. F them.

[DoesntMatter]

lol, prostitudes are ugly drug addicts. F them.

Lol, you must get your information from the movies.

[misombra]

Well, if I told her to keep it real and tell me how much I sucked and what I could do to improve, and pay more if she told me how I was messing up, I don't think so. Like I could say to her "Be honest- I'm expecting to hear what I'm doing wrong, so I better hear it"

my dear, doesn'tmatter, you can get that done for free.

how old are you? just wondering...

[DoesntMatter]

my dear, doesn'tmatter, you can get that done for free.

how old are you? just wondering...

I doubt it

..I'm 18..

[misombra]

well when you're older, and dealing with actual women who aren't afraid to say what they want, then you'll get it for free. don't doubt too soon. you're probably dealing with girls your age who aren't so willing to tell you the truth.

[Gigabitch]

lol, prostitudes are ugly drug addicts. F them.

Aaaahahaha! Oh, my God, you have no idea. Some of the prostitutes in Hawaii were so effing beautiful, they took my breath away. And I'm a girl. A straight girl.

[DoesntMatter]

Aaaahahaha! Oh, my God, you have no idea. Some of the prostitutes in Hawaii were so effing beautiful, they took my breath away. And I'm a girl. A straight girl.

Without wanting to sound racist, were they white? And what type of prostitute were they?

[CAM]

Simply Bullshit, Cam.

I don't deny that "Full belly, empty balls" will get a girl a long ways, but it doesn't cover it for longterm relationships. Just like "funny and charming" will only get a fella so far.
It takes commitment tho, and patience. Lots of patience.

Very true. Of course, I was full of B.S....it was sarcasm.

But, I admit that one of my problems is that I have very little patience but TONS of commitment. I have improved with age on the patience-thing because, well...I don't have as much energy to get impatient like I used to !!! The gym takes the impatience out of me, too. Plus, I'm a Virgo.

Plus, I'm not an eater and I'm not oversexed...so, the "full belly, empty balls" strategy would not work with me for very long...and that isn't sarcasm

In terms of the other comments about prostitutes later in the thread... maybe it is for other people, but not me. I personally couldn't bring myself to do that. But, I do think it should be legal and regulated for those who want to go that route.

[CAM]

well when you're older, and dealing with actual women who aren't afraid to say what they want, then you'll get it for free. don't doubt too soon. you're probably dealing with girls your age who aren't so willing to tell you the truth.

Ahh...you never get anything "for free"

[DoodleMan]

And what type of prostitute were they?

Hehe what does that mean? Strawberry-vanilla?

[Nice Lover Boy]

ok, confession time - i'm mid thirties, he's still in his teens

OK, so how old is this cat?
Are you sure that this cat will not start to get emotional about the "passion" that you two are sharing?
I was in that young man's position at one point and struggle so bad to move on because the "passion" was real good.
"She" even asked me that it was time to move on, but I didn't want to.
I had to though because what we had was not safe and there are some boundaries that I regret.