Guys, what shall I do?? Need help!!

[crystalheart]

He likes me, and it took him over 6 months to make his move to hug and kiss me. But he got hurt from his past serious relationship, and it’s been so many years that he didn’t have anything serious.

He said he still doesn’t want to get in anything serious. But when I told him that I will consider other guys and I won’t see him anymore if that’s the case, I saw his tears. I asked why he felt upset; he told me that he doesn’t want me to go away.

I really like him, what shall I do?? =((

[Gigabitch]

I'm nosy, so I'm posting in the ask a guy forum.

You're doing the right thing. Hold your position- if he wants you, he has to make an effort. Not a huge effort, but an effort.

He can't run around like an open wound for the rest of his life.

[crystalheart]

hehe... thanks Giga, I like your comments. You always gave good point.

[IndiReloaded]

tell him to pick his sorry ass off the floor & jump in.

Me too; sticking my oar in on my honourary Y-chromosome.

If you say this^, tho, you better mean it. And be worth it if he does. Otherwise he gets to kill you if you don't. That is all.

[CAM]

He likes me, and it took him over 6 months to make his move to hug and kiss me. But he got hurt from his past serious relationship, and it’s been so many years that he didn’t have anything serious.

He said he still doesn’t want to get in anything serious. But when I told him that I will consider other guys and I won’t see him anymore if that’s the case, I saw his tears. I asked why he felt upset; he told me that he doesn’t want me to go away.

I really like him, what shall I do?? =((

Well, the first paragraph sounded like me! But, I haven't been hugged in years, so its not me.

But, the second paragraph sounds like he is either telling you he's not interested or...he's a wuss. Ya know, I had my heart broken years ago, but hey...I'm ready for the next real relationship.

If he doesn't awaken, then let him stew in his own miserable juices and move on.

[Michael6084]

Well, the first paragraph sounded like me! But, I haven't been hugged in years, so its not me.

But, the second paragraph sounds like he is either telling you he's not interested or...he's a wuss. Ya know, I had my heart broken years ago, but hey...I'm ready for the next real relationship.

If he doesn't awaken, then let him stew in his own miserable juices and move on.

hes a wuss i can guarantee. he needs more balls. sad but honest truth.

[crystalheart]

I think you guys are right. But what I should do now??

[Gigabitch]

Tell him, using small, carefully chosen words. Tell him that you're surprised that a person as sensitive as he is is apparently completely lacking in empathy, and that he needs to pull his head out of his ass long enough to take a good look at the situation, recognizing that you have needs too.

He is seriously narcissistic.

[DoesntMatter]

and it’s been so many years that he didn’t have anything serious.

LOL damn, this guy needs a lesson in resiliency.

But yeah, I agree with what everyone else said

[bigfella247]

I reckon he likes you, only he's not sure of where he wants to go now after his previous relationship. if you are really sure that he is what you want, get in there and flirt with him or spend time with him, help him out of his crisis making sure that when he's out of it, you are the one he wants

though thats just my opinion, he could be a lot different to the way I am