ok. wow, I don't know where to start. I used to like this boy who goes to archery with my brother(I liked him alot). Hes 15 but I'm only 12 (so 2 1/2 years difference). I was too shy to talk to him so my friends called him and told him I liked him. I got his phone number and his msn and stuff, so I talk to him on msn sometimes but lately we've been calling each other everyday. he will call my cell if I haven't called him yet, so we talk alot on the phone, but the problem is my brother hasn't been going to archery lately so I haven't seen him in a while. So, If I did still like him, and should flirt with him I could only flirt on the phone not in person(well, until my brother has time to go to archery). I'm not sure if he likes me. We tell each other everything(so I'm not sure if thats kinda of like a friend) he told me he loved me and I was sexy and he wants me to come over but he was talking in a funny accent so I'm not sure if he was serious. but he keeps telling me we should go to the movies together but I don't know if that means just us, or like to bring my friends. but I can't do that because I don't live right in the same town as him, I live in the country so It's like half and hour away. I'm not sure what he thinks of me, so Im not sure if I should just think of him as a friend or flirt with him, or something, lol I'm just confused!!!!
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02-09-07, 01:52 AM #1
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I don't know what to do
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02-09-07, 01:57 AM #2
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When I was fifteen I wasn't even aware that twelve year olds existed.
This guy's either A) pulling your chain or B) a sick, sick ****.
He's in high school. He's surrounded by girls who have boobies. Girls who've gone all the way. No offense, but what the hell would he want with a kid?God, so atrocious in the Old Testament, so attractive in the New--the Jekyl and Hyde of sacred romance.
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02-09-07, 02:48 AM #3
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Actually, he's a loser and in 6 months you'll realize how unattractive he is because 6 months (at the age of 12) is like 5 years.
Oh, did I mention he's a loser that probably can't attract a girl his own age? Of course I did ... If I were to look back 12 years ago (when I was 15) and remembered that I liked a 12 year old, I would probably be very disappointed with myself ... depressed even.
My own personal opinion, of course ...no autographs, please!
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ya...i guess thats right. lol im not even sure if he likes me in that way lol but i guess it would be kinda weird if he did. :S
But now I've got another prob. theres another guy my age well he just turned 13, and he said he likes 3 girls and im 3rd lol. hes nice...and kinda cute, and i kinda like him...but I just don't feel all those butterflies and stuff lol. like i told him i missed him cuz he was in another province and instead of saying it back, he just said ok. and he said he would go out with me but hes not allowed until december or january to have a gf(even though hes had one before) and I don't think I'll like him then :S
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I agree with Gribble.
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02-09-07, 04:18 AM #6
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I know this will be hard for you to believe since so many young girls your age are literally throwing themselves at boys (so desperate they are to have male attention), but you are really too young for all the drama. Even if you weren't too young for boys, why in hell would you even *consider* going out with a boy who made you his number 3 choice and was dumb enough to tell you so? You are supposed to go out with your number 1 choice, and not coincidentally, you should also be *his* number 1 choice.
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
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We can all give you advice but you'll learn best through experience at this age.
However, i think you should forget about the 15 year old. He's probably messing with you and could possibly get you into trouble. You're obsession with him has probably made you vulnerable, and what if you do something stupid like sleep with this guy? He won't care, he'll move on to someone else.
Take things easy.As was said,you're too young for the drama.
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ok thanx that actually helps alot lol. But should I even bother wasting my time on the guy my age? lol I guess I liked the 15 year old better cuz hes more mature so he knows what to say lol and guys my age are kind of come off as jerks. lol I know I'm really young and most likely very stupid but I just like the feeling of being loved lol. anyways, thanx for everyone's advice <3 (L)
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LOL. Many women of ALL ages say this about men of ALL ages Originally Posted by wannabeloved
