Random issues. >,<

[Desinate]

Ok, I seem to be crazy when it comes to girls.. not bragging but i seem to get ""alot"" if thats what you want to call it. But i usually don't want just a short relationship (from time to time yeah), i keep looking for a more serious one and recently i just started talking to my friends girlfriend. Ok long story short, i think i love her (hope its not lust). And she told me shes in love with me (before she knew i was)... But she really doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend + he is my best friend.
I told her to stay with him, and that i want whats best for her.
Did i do the right thing? and could i have some more advice ><

[Desinate]

Oh and another problem, I met this girl at a dance/disco thing.. we had allot of "fun" Of course no sex. I thought it was a one night stand, but i got her MSN and we chatted alot/went out.. she also says she loves me.. But she is just one of those Beautiful on the outside, nothing on the inside girls.. People keep saying im lucky to have such a hot girl blah blah, but i thought it was wrong if i don't like her. So i broke up i said i dont feel the for her the same way she does for me, but a few days ago she acted as if nothing happened and we are still going out. AND she asked me to have sex with her, i said no.. (she would probably try to sue me or something) event though she is the really really really forceful one ><

[LostNotFound]

okthe girl from the 1st post - out of bounds. i duno whether or not you did the right thing but if she truly loves you i doubt she'll be able to last a lot longer with your best mate. i think if they break up - maybe you have a chance other wise stay away you'll losse your friend.

[Mathias]

Telling her that you loved her was a selfish and immature move.

[Vain]

The only way I see this working is if they break up and then after your friend is over her ask him if he cares if you guys date, but oh wait that wouldn't work either 'cause he would have to see her be with you. Your screwed man should not have told her you like her.

[bohemiandonut]

You're so full of shit.

[Desinate]

Telling her that you loved her was a selfish and immature move.

this is my reply to both Mathias and Vain
I didn't tell her i love her yet... i only said that she should stay with her current boyfriend. I really don't wanna ruin their relationship, cause hes a good friend of mine. And so is she. Altough he said he doesn't care if i go out with her even before i knew who she was. So i think hes a bit KOOKOO ><

[Desinate]

You're so full of shit.

What do you mean?

[jurupa]

(she would probably try to sue me or something)

Sue you for what? Having sex with her? lol.

[Desinate]

lol maybe.. i dont know, shes like: have sex with me..
im like uhh......

[CAM]

lol maybe.. i dont know, shes like: have sex with me..
im like uhh......

Love the conversation above....two grunting animals. Even ostriches (with brains the size of split peas) have a more elaborate ritual...

The Baby Boomers gave us "Sexual Liberation" which means any moron with dick or vagina can chafe their organs and get moist.

The Boomers didn't, however, mention anything about a dignified relationship between the sexes...a work in progress, apparently.

[Desinate]

CAM you are so right.. she is a full slut ><, but meh.